• Shiggles
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    10 hours ago

    It might’ve been true for your personal experiences, but it’s not universal, especially across different generations. It’s definitely more of an issue for exceptionally attractive people of any gender.

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      9 hours ago

      I genuinely feel for attractive people

      I’ve been moderately attractive once for a few years in my life and it was fucking awful, got grouped multiple times as a guy, can’t imagine being a hot woman for decades

      it does always feel like people want stuff from you