What have friends of yours or members of your family chosen for each one? Someone I know is having an event and it has me wondering.

    • neidu3English
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      4 months ago

      Only reason why I know this tradition exists is because of an episode of Friends, as I had nothing else to binge while on an offshore rotation: Each trip involved being on a ship for five weeks straight with shoddy internet connection.

    • ghost_towelsEnglish
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      4 months ago

      I did at my wedding, but it wasn’t like it was a big thing. It was something personal that I did for myself.

  • CameronDev@programming.devEnglish
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    4 months ago

    Semi related, but I hate how every wedding seems to do the “Love is patient, love is kind” reading. Have some originality…

  • Cris@lemmy.worldEnglish
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    4 months ago

    Is blue supposed to be something that color, or something sad… I’m not familiar with the tradition

    The color seems an odly specific and arbitrary thing to bring, but sad seems… Well kinda sad 😅

    • 🇨🇦🇩🇪🇨🇳张殿李🇨🇳🇩🇪🇨🇦@ttrpg.networkEnglish
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      4 months ago

      Blue is supposed to be the colour, yes. The verbiage is that “blue is an ancient symbol—dating back to Ancient Rome—representing love, purity, and fidelity”. This is, however, absolute poppycock. Blue was a symbol of fidelity, this is true, but to the emperor, not in love. And indeed there is no single colour that symbolizes all three things in Roman times.

      White symbolized purity and innocence. Yellow represented marriage and fidelity. Red represented violence (Mars), yes, but also passion and love. Green represented beauty, fertility, and love. Purple represented passion, but chiefly reserved for the royal classes.

      Blue was not related to any kind of love symbolism whatsoever. The Victorians just made stuff up. Again. Like the so-called “medieval” torture devices (like iron maidens, etc.)