There is this girl I like, in my dancing class. I want to know if we connect on other levels. I don’t want to straight up ask her what her hobbies are. I want to make it feel natural. Believe me, this makes sense within the context.
We usually talk a little bit before the class starts. So that’s really the best opportunity to ask.
If you have a pet, casually mention it. People like to talk about their pets. Any bumper stickers on her car? Social media pics?
Be careful with the last two. Depending on context, these could come across as stalking.