i keep forgetting everything

  • Libb@jlai.lu
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    16 hours ago

    You should share some context: how do you study, in what conditions (quiet room, all by yourself, in a busy place, watching TV or listening to music?)? What do you study (Minecraft cheat codes, astrophysics, XIX French literature)? Using what methodology? (ie do you take notes or not, how. Do you read, and how?)

    FYI, I cannot memorize anything if I’m not writing it down… longhand.
    And I can hardly understand anything I read/study if I’m not taking notes while I’m studying/reading it. Even when I read a novel or an article, I take notes ;)

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      13 hours ago

      so like i always do some random exercisex apart of my homework and read stuff on the topic and always on my desk, doesnt matter if i take notes or not i still forget what is in the exam. also happens when mom asks me if we have mustard in the fridge

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        1 hour ago

        doesn’t matter if i take notes or not i still forget what is in the exam

        Then, let me ask how do you take note while you’re studying? It’s a technique, it’s not a magical wand quite obviously, nor is it in an On/Off switch. If it doesn’t work there must be a reason why, I mean a reason other than ‘it just doesn’t work’ ;)

        I’m sorry if all what follows sounds painfully obvious but since you’re kind of vague on your exact process/situation and I can’t guess how you’re working I think it’s worth mentioning.

        I mean, for example there is not much use in verbatim copying what you ear or what you just read in a book because, well, you’re not an audio recorder or a camera, both of those tools would do the job way better than any of us can ever hope to do. So, since we’re smart, we should use them to record instead of our brain which we shoudl use to understand what has just been recorded.

        In fact, using the brain as a recorder is a gigantic waste our (limited) energy and won’t help anyone learn or understand much. Instead, you need to, how do you say that in English? You need to rephrase or to reword the teacher’s or the author’s thoughts into your own words. That’s how you internalize (make it your own) whatever you’re studying.

        When I was a student my rule was to write whatever the teacher was saying as stupidly as I could. I did not sweat writing frantically to copy whatever crap he was saying. I listened and summarized multiple of his sentences (teachers need (and often like) to repeat themselves) in a few words at most. I also devised my own shorthand to make it even quicker to write stuff down without getting tired. Back in my room, I would then read my notes and re-summarize them if not the same day, at the soonest opportunity so it was still fresh in my mind (this helps a lot). Internalizing that info make it so that as a student I could easily spend a lot of time partying or having fun (and I did) while still acing all my exams…without cheating, I mean.

        Also, merely underlining passages in a book (even using many nice colors) is not of much use either. It’s purpose should be to let you quickly locate what you think are meaningful sections, that’s all. To understand/internalize the idea itself, the best way is still to summarize it into your own words. Be it a lecture or a book.

        also happens when mom asks me if we have mustard in the fridge

        I have no idea what’s in our fridge or more exactly what needs refill. And why would I bother? Lists are made for that.

        My spouse and I keep a small scrap of paper (usually, the back of an envelope—yep, we’re that cheap ;)) for whatever is missing or soon will need resupply and the first of us the goes out to do some errands pick that list. Unsurprisingly, our fridge is always exactly like we want it without any effort from us to memorize anything. Mustard is getting low? Add it to list, problem solved. We all have limited brain power, don’t waste it on useless crap like memorizing the content of your fridge.

        Once again, all of this may sound obvious but that is also the fundamentals of learning/understanding and even memorizing anything. If you’re willing to share more specific info on your issue maybe I, or anyone else more qualified, could give more specific suggestions?

        What I’m pretty sure of is that more often than not that kind of difficulties is related to the process itself not to some inability.

        Hope this helps.