• djsoren19@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      2 days ago

      yeah when I meant dominant I meant like “taking the lead”, not in a sexual sense. Like, would the butch always drive? As a bottom, I never drive myself, I let the top do that.

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        1 day ago

        Yeah that’s not a thing that happens with us. I’m a femme who fixes stuff in my home. Honestly not even the gay men in my life are like that