• terraborra@lemmy.nz
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    18 hours ago

    I would say same standard of living but the difference is they had a kid and my wife and I don’t. We simply could not have the same lifestyle if we had children.

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      17 hours ago

      Same.

      That’s partly why I never married or had a family. I wanted all my time and money to myself and to have more freedom.

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      18 hours ago

      Yeah, kids are darn expensive. I’m damn happy my parents decided to have me despite that fact. :)

      To answer OP’s question, also doing better than them at the same age. Big part of it was investing early (time-value of money is a massive deal) and keeping the same car forever. My parents have spent quite a bit on cars over the years, it is probably their largest reducible expense. I bought a lightly used crossover a long time ago, and it’s got a long life ahead of it.