• Elaine@lemm.ee
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    21 minutes ago

    Yea, because I have a little more money saved for retirement otherwise I am about the same.

  • tooclose104@lemmy.ca
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    Surprisingly, yes. I made some risky decisions between 2020-2022 that paid off significantly, though.

    The pandemic turned my prior job to 100% remote and I got in writing from their HR that I could move anywhere in my province. This allowed me to find a house I was able to afford buying, so that’s what I did with the support of my wife. About a year after that I got a much higher paying job local to my new home, which is when I beat or matched my parent’s income at the time which certainly was more than when she was my age.

    I lept into the unknown and didn’t die, it’s been great!

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    Yes! But it’s because our situations are very different. I don’t have a child, but I was already a preteen when my mom was this age. I didn’t have a deadbeat, abusive, drug addicted, , money draining spouse. I’ve cut off people (family) that I saw take advantage of my mother growing up. I don’t have a sibling who is a manipulative, selfish, lazy, money grubbing piece of shit. Fuck, I don’t have a daughter (me) that I’ve had to help for years while she tried to get on her feet.

    I also have a wonderful mother who did what she could to set me up for success, trying to correct the mistakes of her childhood. My great aunt left me some money that helped with school (I’m still in debt, but could have been way worse). I have a good friend that talks me out of reckless shit, not egging me on to take advtage.

    I’m also less social, so I’m not going out to lunch or parties and what have you. I live alone with one cat.

    TL;DR: Yes, but is because I have less responbilities than my mother had at this age, and it’s cheaper living a solitary lifestyle with one kitty cat.

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    Gosh no, not in Canada.

    They paid 170k for a great house in one of the nicest neighborhood of Montreal in the 90s. I’ll be paying 3x more for a super basic house in a shitty neighborhood. I was lucky enough to buy a house before the pandemic so I made a profit selling it, but even with that I won’t even come close to their way of living.

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    In some ways, sure. I’m not religious, and I don’t have children. In terms of finances, no.

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    Better in what regard? Fiscally all things adjusted and accounted for? Fuck no,

    Progress as a person and self growth and development? Absolutely.

    Also I will never breed, so always will be one up on my parents there,

  • Dizzy Devil Ducky@lemm.ee
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    Technically not since they were married, were renting small house, and had at least one kid by the time they were my age. I’m still in college.

  • SmoothOperator@lemmy.world
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    Absolutely. Both me and my siblings. My parents were in an okay spot at this point, but they supported us to do far better.

    Times were pretty borked compared to now, at least in this country.

  • Tiefling IRL@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    When my parents were my age, they left their country to move to the US in search of opportunities. Now that I’m that age, I’m leaving my country to move to another because of literal Nazis

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    In terms of satisfaction? No. In terms of finances? Not sure. By my age, my parents were together, my mom had my sister and my dad became a step father to her, they had a lot of friends and were very popular. Me…not so much in any of those things. But I’m living comfortably in my own apartment, no kids or S.O. so I have a lot of spare cash and a lot of things I like. I don’t know if my parents had the same pleasures as me at this age.

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    I would say same standard of living but the difference is they had a kid and my wife and I don’t. We simply could not have the same lifestyle if we had children.

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      Same.

      That’s partly why I never married or had a family. I wanted all my time and money to myself and to have more freedom.

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      Yeah, kids are darn expensive. I’m damn happy my parents decided to have me despite that fact. :)

      To answer OP’s question, also doing better than them at the same age. Big part of it was investing early (time-value of money is a massive deal) and keeping the same car forever. My parents have spent quite a bit on cars over the years, it is probably their largest reducible expense. I bought a lightly used crossover a long time ago, and it’s got a long life ahead of it.