Reposting a response from a similar comment for reach:

I believe Pug that it’s not about wanting to misgender per se. But there is definitely an unkept desire to carry out uncalled-for maltreatment in a white-knight vigilante justice fashion.

Which has its roots in noble motivations but is explicitly hurtful to the trans space, and it’s unforgivable that Pug won’t just listen to trans people on this.