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minus-squareDrasglaflinkfedilinkarrow-up11·14 hours agoI did try to set a safe word prior to that incident but she laughed it off and said we didn’t need one. Fortunately things never got really ugly, even if this is not the only crazy fantasy she pestered me with.
minus-squaredjsoren19@lemmy.blahaj.zonelinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up25·14 hours agoYikes, laughing at wanting a safe word is a huge red flag IMO. Sounds like you dodged a bullet in the end.
minus-squareDrasglaflinkfedilinkarrow-up11·edit-213 hours agoThe best part is, she’s 15 years older than me, she should have been more experienced and level-headed about her kinks. Sounds like you dodged a bullet in the end. I’m a bit slow, it took me a decade to dodge it.
I did try to set a safe word prior to that incident but she laughed it off and said we didn’t need one. Fortunately things never got really ugly, even if this is not the only crazy fantasy she pestered me with.
Yikes, laughing at wanting a safe word is a huge red flag IMO. Sounds like you dodged a bullet in the end.
The best part is, she’s 15 years older than me, she should have been more experienced and level-headed about her kinks.
I’m a bit slow, it took me a decade to dodge it.