That’s sad to hear, especially when it involves good people … from what I saw and experienced Squid is good people. But I do know what being online too much does to a person’s mental health. When I first jumped on the Reddit bandwagon years ago, I got hooked to the anonymous nature of being able to connect, chat and engage with people on a regular basis. The whole system is also designed around negativity, anger, fear and anxiety … so if you stay online and engaged long and often enough, you’ll eventually get fished into conversations and discussions about so many stupid inconsequential things that it will drive you into a black hole. You also get attached to people and personalities over time and you also begin to attract bad actors … but it is all by design to keep everyone engaged, commenting, posting, reposting, attacking, defending, reattacking, double dealing, back stabbing and egging people on to send one more message, one more stab, one more point, one more comment. On corporate social media, the negativity is designed to keep everyone engaged … I find on the Fediverse that the negativity is designed to just drive people away.
I take my time with this stuff now … I engage but I don’t engage with bad actors … ever … and when I do find good people, I do my best to treat everyone kindly, openly as possible. I trend lightly because some people are moving so fast and so much that it’s hard to see where anyone is coming from or going.
It’s a warning and a caution for the rest of us. We have to take time for ourselves from this digital world. It isn’t healthy to beat off trolls all day long or to try to find the next meme to share all the time. I enjoy all the work you and the mods do and I appreciate everything you do but at the same time, I’d rather see everyone manage their mental health first than to see another digital friend fall into the abyss.
Take care my friend and all the best to you and mods …
and all the best to @[email protected] - may that wild cephalopod keep flying high - they’re good people and wherever they are I hope they are happy and well.
That’s sad to hear, especially when it involves good people … from what I saw and experienced Squid is good people. But I do know what being online too much does to a person’s mental health. When I first jumped on the Reddit bandwagon years ago, I got hooked to the anonymous nature of being able to connect, chat and engage with people on a regular basis. The whole system is also designed around negativity, anger, fear and anxiety … so if you stay online and engaged long and often enough, you’ll eventually get fished into conversations and discussions about so many stupid inconsequential things that it will drive you into a black hole. You also get attached to people and personalities over time and you also begin to attract bad actors … but it is all by design to keep everyone engaged, commenting, posting, reposting, attacking, defending, reattacking, double dealing, back stabbing and egging people on to send one more message, one more stab, one more point, one more comment. On corporate social media, the negativity is designed to keep everyone engaged … I find on the Fediverse that the negativity is designed to just drive people away.
I take my time with this stuff now … I engage but I don’t engage with bad actors … ever … and when I do find good people, I do my best to treat everyone kindly, openly as possible. I trend lightly because some people are moving so fast and so much that it’s hard to see where anyone is coming from or going.
It’s a warning and a caution for the rest of us. We have to take time for ourselves from this digital world. It isn’t healthy to beat off trolls all day long or to try to find the next meme to share all the time. I enjoy all the work you and the mods do and I appreciate everything you do but at the same time, I’d rather see everyone manage their mental health first than to see another digital friend fall into the abyss.
Take care my friend and all the best to you and mods …
and all the best to @[email protected] - may that wild cephalopod keep flying high - they’re good people and wherever they are I hope they are happy and well.