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sunnie@sopuli.xyz to 196@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 2 years ago

a serious rule issue

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a serious rule issue

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sunnie@sopuli.xyz to 196@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 2 years ago
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  • PotatoesFall@discuss.tchncs.de
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    I thought it was gonna be 3-4 times a day, but in a week? Those are rookie numbers

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      their problem is that they’re a god damn prude, only 4 times per week? call the pope we have a new patron saint

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    Well, femboys are men who dress feminine. Does that mean you’re attracted to them being feminine? Or are you attracted because they’re men? Because you can certainly be attracted to women with penises (trans women) and be straight and be attracted to feminine-presenting men and be gay.

    Personally I think you should just embrace whatever you find attractive and not worry about the sexuality labels. But I know not every society allows just permissive views.

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      Does that mean you’re attracted to them being feminine? Or are you attracted because they’re men?

      yes

      More seriously, in my experience androgynous/GNC features are widely considered attractive in bisexual circles because they combine attractive features of multiple genders, which is at least twice as many attractive things.

      However someone discovering themselves as “not straight” might not have enough understanding of the relationship between gender and attraction to answer your question.
      In my case as I hit puberty I realized I was attracted to girls, so I thought “ok I’m straight”. Years and many ignored signs later I realized I found feminine men hot, so I thought “I’m straight so it’s because they’re feminine”. Then like a year or two later I caught myself thinking a definitely-not-effeminate actor was hot (not for the first time) and the other shoe dropped. Yeah, I’m a dumbass, but point is that it’s much easier to put a label on oneself and go from there, than to deconstruct something as complex as gender and attraction.

      Thank you for coming to my ted talk.

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        This has been the most informative ted talk I’ve seen in years.

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  • LuckingFurker (Any/All)@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    Can’t blame them though, femboys are hot

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      OP is straight.

      Femboys make him hard.

      Ergo, femboys are women.

      Source: Johnny Bravo

      Edit: So begins OPs first step into internet research to disprove me….

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      • LuckingFurker (Any/All)@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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        True and real

  • CyanFen@lemmy.one
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    Am I the only one who feels like exclusively jerking to their SO is weird as fuck?

    • riodoro1@lemmy.world
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      It sounds like a thing they teach you at sunday school

    • Pregnenolone@lemmy.world
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      It’s insane and disappointing how many people think like that today. People who can’t seperate fantasy and reality and are so insecure about other people’s thought that they want to dictate them.

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    3-4 times this week

    Pffffft

    • So_zetta_slowpoke@lemmy.world
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      Those are rookie numbers.

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    Geez, it’s almost like rigid guidelines on sexuality are a farse.

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      farce arse

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    • sunnie@sopuli.xyzOP
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  • Pregnenolone@lemmy.world
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    Maybe not as straight as he wants to think he is

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    ONLY 4 times a week?

    Those are rookie numbers, git gud noob.

    • Mandarbmax@lemmy.world
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      4 times a week while in a serious relationship though is a lot more than 4 times a week while single.

      • Rozaŭtuno@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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        skill issue

      • DragonTypeWyvern@literature.cafe
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        Anyone who doesn’t nut once a day counts as asexual imo

        • qyron@sopuli.xyz
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          Why?

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            Their clear lack of sexual verve.

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              This comment can only be read in the style of Laszlo Cravensworth.

              • DragonTypeWyvern@literature.cafe
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                As all 196 comments should be!

            • tfw_no_toiletpaper@feddit.de
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              That’s just low libido?

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                thats not even low thought?!

      • Pregnenolone@lemmy.world
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        I mean, it all depends on the couple and the individuals in it. Some people just have a much higher libido but can still maintain a plenty healthy sex life including masturbating

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    • ComradeSharkfucker@lemmy.ml
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      You didn’t have to type that out

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      ಠ_ಠ

      • Krauerking@lemy.lol
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        ಠ⁠︵⁠ಠ

    • Renny Protogenny@feddit.nl
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      You were browsing e621 with the blacklist disabled didnt you?

    • qyron@sopuli.xyz
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      What?!

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        • qyron@sopuli.xyz
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          All the imagined horrors of fiction cannot compare to the darkness that dwells within the hearts of men.

          You had me with this part.

          Go take a look at motherless dot com if you don’t believe me (I’m not linking that shit here you’ll have to do some typing).

          How low does that score in the internet?

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        • Mrderisant@lemm.ee
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          I’m really scared of that. Can I get a sentence of clarity on it?

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            Oh… Motherless… Yeah I went to that site as a kid…

            Don’t. Just don’t think about it ever again. Like trust me. Don’t.

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                No, seriously though you don’t want to know. I know it’s hard to say that without it sounding more appealing but like… I can tell you exactly the day, the chair I sat in and the images that are burned into my brain from the afternoon I decided to look up that site.

                It’s ok to stay oblivious. This one is better not even given thought towards.

                If you must know something, It’s a social media site, it allows image and video and text sharing. It’s all… Truly awful.

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                  Dude it’s just a porn site…

              • 【J】【u】【s】【t】【Z】@lemmy.world
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                Lol.

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    • Pregnenolone@lemmy.world
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      Bro please don’t ever cause me to associate femboys and maggots please

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      Removed by mod

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    I mean, who doesn’t

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    Wait…ya’ll thinking of your Spouses/Significant Others? Honest question. The only time I ever thought about my spouse while masturbating was before they were my spouse.

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      Jesus gives you a pass if it’s your property.

      Edit: OH now the Christians are mad for suggesting woman are less than human?!

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    Damn. Outrageous! What is society doing to our men? Making them horny over feminine looking men? 🤔 what will the l2sgbtqia do to us next? Make me feminine?/ 🥺 please

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