We have a simple home(1 floor. 1bath. 2rooms) We live in a calm neighborhood, we don’t own extremely expensive things. And he wants a camera inside our home? For what? This camera can also record audio. We have a child together, we work and we come home. Why do we neeed a camera inside? I feel like it’s an invasion of privacy! I love being silly inside our home. I love yelling. I love singing annoyingly when I’m alone. Should I feel disrespected? Should he feel disrespected? He’s bringing out the “what do you have to hide card”.
A romantic partner demanding to install a nanny cam to watch me would be an immediate dealbreaker, I couldn’t care less what his reasons are. Even the ask screams abusive control. They’d lose whatever trust I had in them both for the absurd question and their reaction to my resounding hell no.
Imagine a life where you have to comb your own home for hidden cameras daily as though you’re staying in a shoddy Airbnb because that’s the life you’ll have with this person. Imagine what happens to those images when you’ve finally had enough of this type of treatment. Are you sure he hasn’t secretly installed one already? I’d nope out of that relationship at the speed of light.