We have a simple home(1 floor. 1bath. 2rooms) We live in a calm neighborhood, we don’t own extremely expensive things. And he wants a camera inside our home? For what? This camera can also record audio. We have a child together, we work and we come home. Why do we neeed a camera inside? I feel like it’s an invasion of privacy! I love being silly inside our home. I love yelling. I love singing annoyingly when I’m alone. Should I feel disrespected? Should he feel disrespected? He’s bringing out the “what do you have to hide card”.
Personally, I/we have cameras throughout the common areas of me and my S.O.’s home. We have people come take care of our dogs here and there, people drop off and kindly steal packages, and we are also in an “improving” neighborhood where we get to hear the occasional “firework” (gunshot). But I live in the US and “celebratory fireworks” are sadly very normal in some areas.
If he’s not sharing access to those cameras with you equally (I.e. Ring shared access), that’s very questionable. On the other end, if he’s sharing access with you and you’re questioning it (it doesn’t sound like this is the case), then that’s also questionable. So, get access if you don’t have it already. If he balks at that idea, I’d get very curious. And throw a handful of red flags into the air.