We absolutely do care about community.
You can say that all you want, but actions speak louder than words.
Because we are not lemmy based, so our development takes time (plus my developer left, plus we were trying to move to sublinks which itself has federation issues). So federation for us is not a config setting.
You launched what you apparently considered to be your MVP, and it’s a one-way leech of fediverse user content.
The fact that you were willing to launch without federation in place signals, at least to me, that you care far less about community participation than you do about the content the community produces.
Additionally, different admins feel different rules are fair, so it is hard for us to know how to be good community members.
Welcome to the fediverse, where every software stack works a little differently, and every server has its own rules.
I request a common set of rules, preferably based on traffic, so any newbie can get the breathing room to develop and participate. Does that sound fair?
You’re asking for someone to give you a set of common rules across all instances? For unpaid users and/or volunteer admins to spend their time compiling this information just to provide it to you?
No, actually. To me that doesn’t sound fair at all.
Might be fiddler