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  • Because more money buys you more time.

    If you got 7 hours and 500 bucks, you’ve got 7 hours.

    Why? Because you’ve paid people to take care of all your chores.

    If you’ve got 7 hours and 0 bucks, you’ve got 0 hours.

    Why? Well you’re taking the bus to the discount grocery store, you’re doing your laundry, cooking your meals, you’re commuting 1.5 hours each way on broken trains to work and pay £20 for the privilege, you’re looking for new jobs because you think you’ll be fired, and then you won’t be able to make rent, you’re doing 1-way AI-led recorded video job interviews and pumping out cover letters and CVs for job applications, yet never heard back, you’re comparing payday loans to pay for heat, you’re listening out for debt collectors, you’re chasing up your GP for that blood test result from 6 months ago you never got, you’re trying to find a cheaper place, you’re doom scrolling your bank account balance, wondering whether you can cut down on something, anything, maybe a thicker jumper to sleep in during the winter.

    At the end of the day, you might have a few minutes to kiss your partner, or apologize to a friend you still haven’t got back to for weeks, and not much else.

    So yes, most people cannot afford hobbies. The only thing people can risk it on is something that promises lots of money and an escape from misery, and it’s almost always a grift.

    Now there’s no such thing as a hobby coder, it confuses the average person that someone could, as an adult, just make an app for them and their friends, as just a fun thing, as art, as expression or project or whatever. I always tell my coworkers I’m studying for qualifications, but I’m really just learning active directory because it’s interesting.

    It is only a thing you either grind for to make money through and pay your dues to the tutorial grifter culture promising big bucks selling endless courses on YouTube by people who are suspiciously not themselves employed as software engineers, or you don’t do it at all.




  • Final Destination? Darn I didn’t know this place had underage people in it.

    Either way though check 1, 2 and 3 out, they’re not high brow masterpieces or anything, but decent 2000s blockbusters, especially if you’re someone that goes on or around planes, rollercoasters and subways a lot and makes regular visits to the dentist.


  • It’s not really about hours alone.

    In the UK the average salary (no data on median) in 1980 was ~£6000, but average house price was £23000, or 3.8x the salary. This is during a recession.

    In 2024 the median salary is ~£34000, but the average house price in the last 12 months is £299000, or 8.7x the salary.

    And that’s just housing. Everything else is more expensive too. And you need more things to participate in society.

    The country is FUBAR’d by neoliberalism and austerity policies. The houses that go for millions are barely fit for a dog shed, rotten through and through with mold, filled asbestos, insulation that kills you with gas when it burns, and boy will it burn once the boiler older than the 5 day work week finally explodes.

    Almost no young people, few as they may be, have any interest in anything beyond making it to the top 1% and why would they? For them CompSci was a grift, and FOSS is just how you get something in your resume. So maintainers get defensive, and well meaning but less apt coders get discouraged too.

    For our generation it doesn’t matter if you know git and vim, or only meth and hopelessness, you live in the slums same as everyone. I’m in the top 20% of earners and I couldn’t really even justify a big mac as a treat nevermind spending time on passions.


  • First time I ever girlmoded was to ‘Paralytic States’ about 10 years back, 6 months into HRT.

    It was at school, the last week I’d ever be there. People was in shock whispering all sorts of nasty shit, others looked with bemusement, but I didn’t give a fuck anymore I’ve been through hell up to that point. Now just this year I had SRS on the NHS at last, my journey’s done. All that’s left is to change name now and get citizenship.





  • Oh no I totally understand that I’m privileged as all hell.

    That said I also learned a helluva lot more outside of my degree during said degree and after.

    Formal teaching is really like YouTube and it’s meant to introduce you to what you don’t know more than anything, and as I said that’s a good thing as an introduction, but the vast majority of content is written, and you learn far more from it.