If you took all your DNA, straightened it out, and put it end-to-end, you would die.

Mushroom foraging can be safe, but the rules are:

• Always learn from a local guide first. It’s not transferable to other regions. Which makes books a bad way to do it, and the internet a horrible way.

• You don’t rule out dangerous mushrooms, you identify a specific edible mushroom.

• Never trust a little white mushroom.

A bollard isn’t edible, even once.

Google search peaked in 2014 - that’s when it’d let you do “that movie where [horribly vague summary of an incidental scene]” and get you the answer.

But the complete dropoff started in 2019, when they started letting the ad team remove anti-spam features to game their numbers.

I hope they get all the skins working, and it becomes popular on Linux.

It’s also easier area. Cheeks and neck are way flatter than chin.

I’ve been meaning to set up a self-hosted RSS feed aggregator, but the install instructions for FreshRSS were extremely confusing, and then I got busy.

Skinflute.

Ankylosaurus!

in my partícular case is I literally don’t care which ones they use. Hm. Not sure what that means.

Some people don’t have internal gender feelings and just go with whatever they were assigned at birth out of convenience. I actually started that way and slowly drifted to feeling like my assigned gender much later in life.

Other times, someone realizing that is the first sign they’re trans. If you ask a group of trans people, that’ll probably be some of their origin stories. But I don’t think it’s actually that common overall (trans people are rare!). So what I’d recommend to you, and the other five people reading this that identify with your statement, is that you all sit down and think about your gender feelings a bit, so the trans one can get on with her life.

But anyway, pronouns options for the “assigned male but I don’t care” crowd are he/him, he/them, they/them, he/him/any, and any. For that last one, in a crowd where people are saying pronouns, you’d just say “any pronouns are fine”. (Long time hexbears know I used to rock the he/him/any.)

Are my pronouns he/him?

Probably. Your pronouns are what you want them to be. If someone says “I saw shapis at the park yesterday, but he looked busy so I didn’t say hi to him,” are he and him what you want in those positions?

(I’m going to assume you’re a he/him for the rest of this, but if you want something else let me know and I’ll edit the post.)

Is that how I should tell people?

Yeah, you’d say “my pronouns are he/him.”

Do you actually tell them as you meet them? Do I have to wait for a certain social cue?

In person, it comes up in group meetings where people are making an effort to be inclusive, typically gender diverse or far left crowds. Someone will mention it, or people will just start doing it. You don’t have to be the first person to start adding pronouns. But if you’re in a crowd with someone you know would appreciate it, it’d be nice to start it on your own (without singling them out).

The most awkward option is that you introduce yourself without pronouns, then it goes around the room and people start; in that case just pipe up and say yours are he/him.

How about online. Should I tell people or have it on my personal profile somewhere?

Having it in your profile online is a good idea. Online it’s way more important, since it also combats “there are no girls on the internet.”

And about respecting other people’s pronouns. How do i figure them out? Is it a big faux pas if I don’t before I know them? Is it a faux pas if I refer to someone I just met and I assumed to be male as he/him?

If someone has a gender presentation you can’t figure out, ask. If you’re pretty sure, guess. It’s a minor faux pas to get it wrong, but it’s within the realm of the inevitable awkwardness of human interaction, just say sorry once, correct yourself, and move on. Think of it as being as rude as accidentally stepping on someone’s foot. (Think about how rude that’d be if you kept doing it though.)

I’ve never seen anyone referring to anyone irl by non conventional pronouns. Is it an actual thing or is it currently being pushed to make the world a more inclusive place?

It is very rare, but they’re out there. People with really unconventional pronouns (I’ve met a fae/faer) are going to understand if you have to slow down when talking about them. Generally they’re chosen by people whose gender identity is nonconventional enough that they’re willing to put up with the hassle to get something that feels more right to them.

I know an Australian who is convinced we’re all weird for thinking their animals are dangerous when we have moose and bears.

Those are both regional.

Almost no open/close buttons do anything in the US, but they’re completely honest in Japan.

Crosswalk buttons may: actually hurry up the cycle and stop traffic sooner, wait until the next red light and show a crossing indicator that it’d otherwise skip, or do nothing at all. This can change from city to city, from intersection to intersection, and even over a schedule throughout the day.

Random question about federation - if someone made a Lemmy that just federated with Hexbear and had no communities of its own, would that end up acting like a defederated Hexbear? Or is federation transitive?

Under communism, there will be one open-source Pokemon game that keeps getting updated with new features, way too many features, so many that we’ll all be relieved when they make an inverted modpack system that lets you download someone else’s idea of what features should be disabled. The prevailing feature set will be an open world thing, but there will be a few popular linear story ones, so many that you can constantly play new ones of those if you’re willing to lower your quality standards a little.

There will be far too many Pokemon, because anybody can make a Pokemon. Community groups with wildly different structures, from a coop made of ex-Gamefreak employees, to artist houses, to self-appointed rating boards, to community voting contests, will all accept different Pokemon and make packs of them to plug into the Pokemon game. Different people will consider different groups of packs to be valid. The mishmash of these will be so confusing that people make a wiki to track not just the packs and pack-making groups, but also the common ways that people decide which packs are canon. The talk page for “Are Digimon Pokemon?” will be locked due to perennial flame wars.

(This is the future if you imagine open source software and game modding but with way more people and time.)

Dancing sprouts!

Kids can be up to a year older than their classmates due to the way kindergarten start date cutoffs work. These kids who arbitrarily end up older tend to outperform their peers, because a 7.9 year old is stronger and faster than a 7 year old. This is a real difference - the NHL did a study on this and found that their players disproportionately have early-year birthdays due to how this effect lines up with hockey camps.

Do you care? Of course not, nobody cares about the competitive fairness of kids’ sports, the point is just to get them to exercise and have a hobby. We can verify that nobody takes this seriously by looking at high school sports, where suddenly a four year age gap is acceptable.

Okay, so why does this suddenly matter when it’s what team a trans kid should be on?

If I was a billionaire I bet I could make such a good city as a fuck off vanity project.

I’d hire some Chinese city planner to do all the work, then spend the entire project partying at some tropical island so I don’t get in their way.

homepage defaults to Subscribed instead of all, or at least a way to set that as the default

It should be in your settings page. It’s just labeled “Type” and is between Theme and Sort type.

Not really. If you see a stranger kicking a vending machine, there’s a (well-documented!) bias to think “that much be a violent and angry person” instead of “that person is having such a bad day they’re kicking vending machines now.”

You could go dig all the way into material and social situations that caused a person to yada yada yada, but that’s way deeper in.