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Cake day: March 9th, 2025

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  • It was something along the lines of " I’m sure we’d make a greate power couple, it’s a real shame I’m outrageously heterosexual🤪" when they first brought up the idea of me dating another man

    And when they asked " how do you know if you’ve never tried?" I replied with " problem is…I don’t like seeing my own genitals, I don’t think I could handle another dude’s up close and personal 😅🤪"


  • That’s fair, but at the same time I did also mention that I wasn’t interested in men and the response I received was along the lines of " how do you know you wont like it unless you try" type of deal. I feel lile most people understood it was a joke, but when somebody chimed in that the mention of genitalia made them uncomfortable it seemed like more people jumped on the bandwagon that it was inappropriate. I guess I’m just confused that it was kind of acceptable that people thought it was okay for others to suggest I try a homosexual relationship, which on a dating server for people over 30 you would assume would lead to sex right, but for me to jist mention genitals was considered to be over the top.