I recently got banned from a dating subreddit and discord for people over 30 and all the admins will say is that I made some people uncomfortable. I’ve been trying to figure out what I did that could have upset people and the one 2 things I can think of was one incident when somebody mentioned I should try dating another male member of the discord server since we had so much in comment and I jokingly explained that I could never date another man because I don’t like the sight of my own genitals so I doubt I would want to see or touch another man’s. That seemed to spark some controversy with some members because I brought up genitalia. I get that I probably could have said it in a classier way, but in a server for people over 30 looking to date, I would assume this wouldn’t exactly be taboo or warrant a ban.

  • The0utc4stOP
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    15 days ago

    It was something along the lines of " I’m sure we’d make a greate power couple, it’s a real shame I’m outrageously heterosexual🤪" when they first brought up the idea of me dating another man

    And when they asked " how do you know if you’ve never tried?" I replied with " problem is…I don’t like seeing my own genitals, I don’t think I could handle another dude’s up close and personal 😅🤪"

    • southsamurai
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      15 days ago

      That seems well within sane ranges for that kind of subject matter.

      People be trippin ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

      • The0utc4stOP
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        15 days ago

        Yeah…doesn’t help that I also attract weird people…

        • southsamurai
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          15 days ago

          Well, you did attract me to respond, soooo…

          But damn, I know exactly what you mean. I can be at the grocery store and all of a sudden I’m hearing about the ananaki or whatever it is, and how the aliens and pyramids are some kind of radio telescope thing.

          Like, I ain’t mad about it, I just don’t know how they can tell I’m the sort that will listen and not judge before they launch into whatever it is

          • The0utc4stOP
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            15 days ago

            I’ve had like 5 customers try to correct me on the spelling and/or pronunciation of my name… Like my own freaking name… How stupid would I have to be not to know how to spell or pronounce my own name?

            • southsamurai
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              15 days ago

              Oh, holy hell, that’s absurd.

              I’m trying not to laugh because it has to really grind after the first few times, but damn. I’ve said it a lot lately, but people be trippin