I’d like to report mod activity that’s not following sitewide rules on your server and instead bans people because they feel it’s not worth their time. I would like for the mod to be overlooked.

The sitewide rule #1 says I can expect to participate without harassment and feel welcome. If I call a mod to look over a user breaking this rule, I should expect them to intervene, right?

So I don’t understand why @Apytele@sh.itjust.works is deleting all my comments and banning me instead of the person being aggressive towards me because “both sides of the argument are nonsense” without even bothering with the actual concern. I didn’t call them over to look at anyone’s argument, I specifically stated in my report that the other person was being extremely disrespectful.

So now I’m banned:

Banned Lemminary from the community Curated Tumblr@sh.itjust.works reason: troll expires: in 30 days

Their excuse? I’m a troll, apparently. I invite anyone to check the messages to see if that’s true or if I’m merely sharing my opinion.

I don’t care about the ban–keep it that way. But please let me know if something is being done about these mods who enjoy pushing people around. It’s infuriating that on top of being dog-piled on, berated & insulted in the thread all day (I got links), I also get treated this way by the people who have taken on the role of protecting users. If I hit the report button, I entrust the person in charge to keep a level head and do their job fairly.

Thank you for your time.

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    I don’t know where you got these ideas but I invite you to take a look at the modlog first.

    Im talking about site-bans, not community bans.
    DMs don’t happen in a community, so a community ban wouldn’t prevent them. Garbage DMs usually mean site bans.
    You’re evidently not banned from SJW yet because you can still write here.
    You’re evidently not banned from .world yet because you can still login.

    So instead of quoting my DM, why didn’t you also quote the mod’s.

    I quoted it elsewhere and it’s honestly nothing special, to which you replied with insults to the mod.

    https://sh.itjust.works/u/Apytele | https://lemmy.world/u/Lemminary | 2024-09-09 02:51:08.887679+00 | the argument is pretty nonsensical on both ends and if you drag me into the middle of it I’m banning you both.

    https://lemmy.world/u/Lemminary | https://sh.itjust.works/u/Apytele | 2024-09-09 04:06:22.219219+00 | Who cares about the fucking argument? Sine you care so little about personal ttacks, go ahead dipshit.

    https://sh.itjust.works/u/Apytele | https://lemmy.world/u/Lemminary | 2024-09-09 06:47:03.103689+00 | …actually I seem to have identified the actual problem.

    community banned

    Not sure what personal attacks because the only comment you reported is this one:

    Right, so you’ve got all this experience and knowledge and all you want to do is complain that people get it wrong, you don’t want to do anything to change that by say educating someone who’s engaging in good faith. Consider my mistake noted, I’m no longer interested in anything you have to say about anything. You’re not old, you’re horrifically rude and unnecessarily aggressive. Good day.

    It’s a pretty tame thread all things considered. You wanna discuss this with them, they don’t, take the hint.

    want to know why all my comments were deleted

    They were all deleted at once when the mod banned you, there’s a checkbox to remove all your stuff along with the ban. You know, the mod you had just called a dipshit when they DMd you about your report.
    Like, I don’t know what the fuck you’re expecting when interacting with people.

    a fairly argumentative person by nature, as you can see. I’m having a blast.

    Yes, we’ve noticed. Doesn’t mean other people have to want to interact with you.
    Am I to conclude that relentlessly arguing about inane things is your jam then? (Trick question)

    You keep mentioning people attacking you over there and I didn’t see it. The comments were all tame and your only report is frivolous at best.
    You keep mentioning personal attacks in this here thread, most people have been helpful and the one comment mentioning ban evasion was removed a while ago.
    Your comments weren’t the problem.
    Other people’s comments weren’t the problem.
    Your behavior since is what I’m worried about.
    You’ve somehow escalated a minor disagreement into a potential site ban.

    Some people liked it, you don’t. It’s fine.
    Move on.
    Someone disagreed with you. It’s fine.
    Move on.
    You reported a mostly benign comment and the mod basically told you they weren’t getting involved in your daycare courtyard stuff.
    Move on.
    You then called them a dipshit and got banned from a their community. (Surprised Pikachu)
    Move on.
    It even expires in a month!
    Move on.
    You made this post complaining about mod abuse when you had just called them a dipshit.
    Move. The. Fuck. On.
    […] several steps with opportunities to Move on […]
    You’re still not getting the hint that people don’t wanna be involved in your petty stuff.

    At every point in time you’ve had an easy exit, which is to just move the fuck on, but you’ve insisted on dying on the tiniest hill I’ve ever seen.

    I’ll be explicitly clear.
    This last bit isn’t me having an argument with you.
    This isn’t a discussion, but a warning.
    It’s me telling you that this whole thing is a non-issue and if you don’t move on, then don’t come crying when your account is inevitably nuked.

    Move. The. Fuck. On.

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      It’s a pretty tame thread all things considered. You wanna discuss this with them, they don’t, take the hint.

      They edited the comment, that’s not what it said originally, which is the only reason I reported and they added the stuff about not wanting to interact later to avoid a penalty. I would never report the latter. And why would someone who doesn’t want to interact keep being nasty until they realize they had nothing? All they had to say was berate me on what I think and not respecting MY wishes to not elaborate further, which is only two messages above that one. I was very clear on how fed up I was. Why is that not respected if I’m expected to respect someone else? Instaed they berated me further. But please, tell me where I was “horrifically rude and unnecessarily aggressive” when that person had been doing it to me first and out of nowhere. Nobody has bothered besides one person. You don’t look at that, you got your blinders on for when I had enough with the mod straight-up ignoring my request. Do you think that’s fair to me? Would YOU want to be treated that way by a mod? Not a trick question.

      Yes, we’ve noticed.

      Thank you for noticing! I wish you’d notice the way people have been treating me in that other thread and in this one. It’s pretty obvious that the only thing you care about is piling on even more. Go ahead, do it to your heart’s content as you do. You talk so much about human beings but I don’t see you empathizing. I also wish you’d notice that the reason for the ban had nothing to do with my participation but only my reaction at them being a twat without even bothering with it. If that had happened to you I bet you would also have been upset at being treated like dirt by mods on top of having to endure the pissy replies out of the blue. Notice that instead.

      You keep mentioning people attacking you over there and I didn’t see it.

      Yeah, figured you’d turn a blind eye to that too. Just selectively finding reasons to blame it all on me, barely glancing elsewhere. Like I said, you have yet to put yourself in my shoes and I know you won’t.

      Move. The. Fuck. On.

      I. Will. Not. And. I. Don’t. Have. To. You move the fuck on because all you got is being nasty too. Set the example of when someone replies and you’re told to bottle up after everything that happened.

      Just so we’re clear: I don’t wish to interact further. Respect that. Bottle it up, kid.

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        They edited the comment, that’s not what it said originally

        FYI, reports include the original comment text as it was when reported, which is what I’ve quoted.

        Just so we’re clear: I don’t wish to interact further. Respect that.

        Great, goodbye.