You don’t decide together? Seems a bit sad. You both suggest names and sorta compromise on finding something good. Or one picks the first name and the other picks the second, seems rather fair to me.

With my kids being bi-national, we each picked a name in our language with agreement from the other side and that was it really. We both like both names.

Seems fucking sad not being able to agree on naming kids together as a couple :( Way to involve the dad!