• @mayoi
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    08 months ago

    Have you tried not hanging around people who don’t understand “I’m not attracted to you”?

        • @azulavoir
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          58 months ago

          Yeah I looked that up online and the only results are:

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          • Chaos from Hades

          • Pokémon with the Swarm ability and genders.

          • @[email protected]
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            48 months ago

            “swarmgender” gets me one result on ddg, on google i get three and they’re all this same guy

            • @starman2112
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              8 months ago

              The concept is kinda out there for me personally, and I’m a bit uncomfortable with calling a person “it,” but its pronouns are right there. I don’t really see a reason to deny its gender expression. Who are we to say “no, that’s not how you view yourself?”

        • Zeppo
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          48 months ago

          I found a post on Lemmy from 3 months ago where someone said “As a swarmgender person, mind-melding is how I have sex. And I don’t want to fuck you, so I’m not going to let you into my head. “

          • @Bluescluestoothpaste
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            28 months ago

            I guess that makes sense, is there like a “queen” and “workers” or something? I guess i dont know much about insect social structures, i might be thinking anout bees specifically.

          • @azulavoir
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            18 months ago

            As someone for whom social roles do need to make sense (not in a phobic way I just have that sort of autism) I don’t get it