• @JadenSmith
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    577 months ago

    Am I the only Autist who is extremely offended by people saying “this or that” causes Autism?

    It’s annoying when corporations try to use the condition as a tool to further their bullshit arguments.

    • Marighost
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      367 months ago

      You should be offended, and PETA has been doing this forever to make people think eating animal or animal products is bad. But their assertion also implies autism is a negative thing, which is untrue.

    • Flying Squid
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      167 months ago

      You are absolutely right to be offended. I have neurodivergent people in my family. I love them dearly. I wouldn’t want them to be any different. My father (likely) had autism. He was a professor who got invited to lecture at the Sorbonne and wrote something like 30 books. My brother has autism. He makes far more money than I do because he’s a really good coder and he’s happily married. Neurodivergent people can live lives as full of success and happiness (and lack of success and unhappiness) as anyone else. They just do it differently.

      Acting like autism is some sort of horror that parents should fear is disgusting.

      • Catpurrple
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        77 months ago

        On my way to work, there’s a house I always pass with an “autistic child” sign, a yellow square sign, next to the road. I just feel offended seeing it. Even if the individual in question could be low functioning, inattentive, actually at risk of walking into the street or something, that sign has probably been there past their childhood into adulthood, and a sign to announce your child’s autism to drivers is just… something else.

        • Flying Squid
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          67 months ago

          I would feel the same way. What the hell is wrong with just a Caution: Children sign?

    • @[email protected]
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      97 months ago

      it’s ironic because arguably society “causes” autism, if society wasn’t so fucked then things like autism and ADHD would just be quirks to take into account.

      “oh yeah mary doesn’t like speaking to strangers so we tend to hang out together so it’s easier for her”