I need some relationship advice. I suggested 125% but my wife won’t budge from 10%. Is this normal? How did it go when you had this conversation with your romantic partner?

  • UziBobuzi@kbin.social
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    9 months ago

    Playing hypothetical games like this are poisonous to a relationship. My advice is to not do that kind of thing anymore.

    • LemmyKnowsBest@lemmy.world
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      9 months ago

      I had a boyfriend who early on told me if he won the lottery, I would no longer be part of his life.

      Then guess what happened? I got a ridiculous family inheritance and he was no longer part of my life.

    • ryathal
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      9 months ago

      I think they expose problems more so than create them.

    • Zetta@mander.xyz
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      9 months ago

      Yea I would have this conversation with my partner but as a joke that we’d both find amusing.