• Snot Flickerman
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    4 months ago

    If Calvin was diagnosed with ADHD, later on Dad might feel pretty dumb for saying “How could you possibly forget?” in that tone.

    • @[email protected]
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      124 months ago

      I was just thinking that, my childhood was filled with responding to “why didn’t you do x?” With “I forgot” or making something up because I legitimately didn’t know why I didn’t

      • @[email protected]
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        114 months ago

        “How could you forget?”

        “Well you see, I was doing shit that didn’t make me absolutely miserable and the next thing I knew it was time for the test”

    • @phdepressed
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      124 months ago

      It’s like the proven best way to get stuff stuck in your head. Repetition is super helpful for memory. As an adult usually your repetition is kept to work time but it isn’t a different concept.

      • @[email protected]
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        34 months ago

        To me, repetition implies exercise and usage, whereas studying for a test is a cram session before moving on to something else.

        • Drasglaf
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          34 months ago

          whereas studying for a test is a cram session before moving on to something else.

          And you forget about it a few days later at most.

        • @phdepressed
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          24 months ago

          Cramming and studying are different. Sure many people use cramming in place of studying for tests and whatnot. But proper studying involves working on understanding via exercise and usage. And doing so more often than in just a pre-test cramming session.

    • GladiusB
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      44 months ago

      I don’t think you know how to study then. There is an entire category of psychology called Learning and it’s main focus is how we retain information. There are proven ways to retain information.

      • @[email protected]
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        124 months ago

        I was in grad school when I realized I didn’t know how to learn. I skated in high school and college, though looking back, some of those higher level classes in college should have been a sign that there was a problem, but I pulled it off with reasonably good grades.

        It was a year or so into grad school before I realized I needed to learn this stuff without relying on the professor. I graduated, but not by much.

        • @[email protected]
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          34 months ago

          Any good references? I learn by doing, but that doesn’t work well with purely theoretical stuff.

        • @[email protected]
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          24 months ago

          I had a similar problem - the only college courses I didn’t ace were ones I didn’t show up to - and dropped out of grad skool after it kicked my ass for a year.