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A council has apologised after parents were offered a choice of class photos with or without children with complex needs in them.
Parents at Aboyne Primary complained after being sent a link from a photography company offering them alternative pictures.
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Scotland??
I was 90% sure this was Texas or Florida.Texas or Florida
Who would want a photo of an empty classroom though?
Nah, in Texas and Florida, they just keep kids with ‘complex needs’ all together in a classroom at the end of the hall, so they don’t have to do anything fancy for the classroom photo.
Ohio too, it’s every student with an IEP (which the school will ignore) in there.
I guess check your bias? Assholes are all over
Scotland? Was the second picture empty?
Yeah, the second photo offered to parents was the article thumbnail.
The school was unaware that the company did this.
In Texas or Florida, it would have been the school (board) organizing the alternate shoot.
That seems unlikely, even if it’s what they claim. You would need the staff to help organize the separate photos.
The fuck is wrong with people? Are we not all imperfect flesh? I hope all their bones escape.
I hope all their bones escape.
LOL, now that’s a curse I’m going to have to file away to use myself later!
From this rotting cage of biomatter
Machine God, set us free!
If the flesh came into being because of spirit, that is a marvel, but if spirit came into being because of the body, that is a marvel of marvels.
Yet I marvel at how this great wealth has come to dwell in this poverty.
This was from a ‘heretical’ sect of early Christianity who not only seemed to have incorporated Lucretius’s proto-evolutionary thinking and atomism, but ended up claiming we were actually in a copy of an original reality fashioned by an intelligence the original humanity brought forth, and that it’s actually the future but we just don’t realize it.
So maybe a Machine God already did set you free from your embodied shackles, you just aren’t aware because the virtual embodiment is so accurately simulated it never really entered your mind that it’s already a digital copy.
…where are the bones going to?
Sheffield.
Why would you wish that on the bones.
They know what they did…
Local dog shelters?
Doot town
Well now I know what I’m dreaming about tonight
I remember when retarded was the PC term. Now we just call them republicans.
I was watching some TV show, maybe CSI SVU or maybe some English crime procedural, where the parents were brought in to talk about their son physically abusing a special needs person. It turned out the parents photoshopped out the special needs person from the class photo, and that was used as evidence that they encouraged his discriminatory behavior. I was thinking while watching the show that those are some real fucking assholes for photoshopping out someone from a school photo before they would display it in their home.
Turns out it was something real people do.
You know the only reason the company offered this option was because they had been asked by other parties.
Btw, who displays class photos at home?
Why would you want a bunch of random kids on your wall?
With a couple I know, they had the class photo of one of their sons at the fridge one year. Seemed weird to me too, so I asked. Turns out the son had wanted to hang it because he had always had trouble with fitting in in previous schools, and this was the first time he really was friends with those kids and invited them over as well.
That seemed like a good reason to me personally.
That’s wholesome
Whoever downvoted this: you fucking suck.
Fucking PC language making articles indecipherable. “Complex needs”, wtf does that actually mean? How many fell into this category? Were different pictures taken, or was one edited after the fact? Why are they afraid to add context?
Disabled kids?
the argument is - and I agree - “special” needs implies the needs are optional, surplus, extraneous, unusual and/or deliberate and actually makes less sense than “complex” needs.
If you “need” it - it’s not special. Some fish don’t need sunlight, does that mean that plants that need light have “special” needs? “This plant is so special it needs sunlight for photosynthesis” would be a weird statement. “This child is special because it needs to eat several times a day” “This child is special because it needs to wear warm clothes to prevent it freezing to death in low temperatures” “This child is special because it wasn’t born knowing how to read, it had to be taught” etc- all make no sense. “This child needs to eat, wear clothes, yet learn how to read” are all so obvious to be taken as read.
are you absolutely sure the objection is because “complex needs” is truly impossible to understand, or actually because changing a learned behavior is sometimes uncomfortable and requires effort?
Umm, special doesn’t mean optional, surplus, or extraneous. Like, no definition of it means those things. It doesn’t even imply those things to anyone I’ve ever met. It can mean unusual, though.
So your entire next paragraph doesn’t make sense if you substitute special for unusual. Because it is unusual that some plants don’t need sunlight. Also, I think it is funny that you said some fish don’t need sunlight.
In other news differently abled is totally useful because the differently abled person is ABLE to get from A->B in a different fashion than walking via assistive devices and disabled is crap because it implies that they aren’t able to and next year complex needs will be bad because the need to have education food live aren’t complicated or hard and implying it is discourages us from trying.
I don’t think the problem with dealing with complex needs is the language used but a problem with evolving the language faster than the new choice of words can spread is that it loses its communicative power if outside of people who deal with the issue professionally for instance in school or government nobody has heard the new choice of words and doesn’t understand what is being communicative.
“Photographer offered “no chairs” version of class photos with all the disabled kids photo-shopped out.” is pretty clear.
I’m just assuming it was edited because the idea of literally staging a version where the disabled people weren’t allowed to sit for would be if anything more offensive but we are obviously dealing with insensitive bastards so who knows.
Its not unusual that a portion of a population deviates from common norms and expectations. This is true for animals, (humans) and plants alike.
In many cases deviations can be explained as a being caused by natural genetic mutations that are also the driving factor behind evolution. Of course only a minor subset of mutation is actually advantageous enough to have a chance of eventually being present within the majority.
There is no need to act like its weird or special. Its just natura and it can be predicted with statics.
usage for
… optional:
well if you want to make it a special occasion we could get a special cake
surplus
oh no, those are my special plates for guests only
extraneous
and I made an extra special cupcake just in case
also I think you misread me, I was saying it’s not special if a plant needs sunlight
None of those are correct. Are you not a native English speaker?
Special occasion means an occasion that isn’t ordinary… i.e. unusual. Special cake for the occasion isn’t surplus, it’s just a cake that is specific to the occasion. Specific, shockingly, shares a root word with special.
Special plates for guests only are the plates you don’t usually use… i.e. unusual. Yes, they might ALSO be extraneous, but that isn’t what makes them special. Heck, if you entertain a lot and use those plates for the guests, then they definitely aren’t extraneous.
Special cupcake means you made something you didn’t make like the normal ones or as many as usual… i.e. unusual.
https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/special - definition 4
https://www.thefreedictionary.com/special - definition 6
https://www.oed.com/dictionary/special_adj - definitions 4b, 6a–g.
None of those sentences are remotely equivalent if you actually substitute. They’re nonsensical, even.
Well if you want to make it an optional occasion we could make an optional cake?
oh no, those are my surplus plates for guests only?
and I made an extra extraneous cupcake just in case?
also I think you misread me, I was saying it’s not special if a plant needs sunlight
You were the one equivocating those words.
It’s easy to be disingenuous to make yourself sound right, for instance, if I was to be deliberately obtuse I could read your reply as:
Less than one from over there grammatical constructions equal distant same upon thou certainly switch. Such exists jabberwocky, divisible by two.
Which doesn’t make any sense - yeah, because I was an asshole about it.
My original point is clear, easy to grasp and understandable and you’re just trying to derail to score some minor point.
If it makes you feel better- yes if you interpret words wrong they sound wrong. Congrats, you win the internet debate.
if I was to be deliberately obtuse
That’s all you’ve been so far tho
can you explain what you mean? I shared my experience of why the argument was formed from my experience in education and community communications.
I volunteer for two arts organizations and I work for a tech org - one of which I sit on the board for - who work (at least partially) with young, disabled and/or vulnerable people, and/or have to check communications against best practice.
I have at times been physically long term disabled (although right now I consider myself able bodied), my wife is long term disabled, and I have previously worked with arts organizations focused around hearing loss, sight loss and mobility, and prior to that I was a curriculum organizer for a school district with a focus on engaging those with learning disabilities more in the classroom.
Obviously, the disability community is not a monolith and with any nomenclature (see: differently abled, wheelchair-user debates) there are people on both sides of the argument who do and don’t have disabilities.
Usage for
Unique requirement:
The clutch on this car requires a special tool to align it for installation.
People are not cars, and most of the time “fix” is problematic as people don’t need “fixing” - spaces do. The solution to someone unable to walk is not to fix their legs (which, for most, e.g. amputees, spinal injuries, birth complications is impossible), but to build a ramp instead of a staircase. Unless you happen to have, on hand, a way to “fix” Downs Syndrome, Autism, Dyslexia?
People who can’t use a staircase aren’t “special,” as both you and I and everyone else will inevitably either reach an age where we can’t use a staircase, or will happen to die before that happens - but either way would be been inevitable. Unless you happen to have, on hand, a way to prevent the aging process?
EDIT: also, if we’re getting super pedantic about word definition, if it has to be truly “unique” - ie a set of exactly 1 - then either everyone is unique or no one is, and therefore the usage of the term is equally moot for a different reason
edit: again, are you absolutely sure the objection is because “complex needs” is truly impossible to understand, or actually because changing a learned behavior is sometimes uncomfortable and requires effort?
People are also not cake, plates, or cupcakes like you used in your examples. Nobody stated that people are cars. It’s just an example of using the term “special” in the same form as “special needs.” Nobody said these people need ‘fixing’ either. You’re just trying to make a strawman argument to make yourself appear to be the ‘the most PC person in the room’ and it’s quite absurd.
People who can’t use a staircase have special needs like needing an elevator or escalator.
It doesn’t have to be something unique to the individual, more that it’s unique to the disability.
My objection here is you attempting to ‘one up’ everyone and act morally superior by using some new terminology that nobody asked for, while doing absolutely nothing of substance to help anyone.
I’m not attempting to be the most PC person in the world, its not even about me.
I’m giving a perspective from someone who works in communications and previously worked in education. It doesn’t matter to me whether you like it or not, but it does reflect what is happening in the academic space of disability theory, education theory and PR.
I’m not even really arguing for what I really believe in, im just repeating what is out there and what conversations are happening. You’re not mad at me - you’re mad at communications policy in general.
Just like some people above are mad at the dictionary lol. Anyway, it’s an interesting discussion, I wish it could have been a bit more in depth and a little less about nitpicking semantics of basic words.
Regardless, no hard feelings - have a good evening!
It is understand some class photographs were taken before the pupils with additional support needs were brought in.
How did that happen, when no one in the school was in with it? Where were the kids with complex needs at that time? As a parent I would have a closer look at the school, no matter what they say now. I mean it takes time to get the kids stand together, stop making funny faces etc. This was not done in five minutes or the pictures would be awful.
I’d imagine (from personal experience): the period before was split, with one part of the class doing something and the others doing something else. Therefore they didnt arrive at the photoshoot together.
