cross-posted from: https://lemmy.dbzer0.com/post/34424332

My partner feeds them a fine amount but occasionally I will feed them more as they’re still hungry then they nap for 2-4x longer. Is this potential food comma healthy? They exhibit no unhealthy signs and are happily eating until they refuse food, so they recognize their own fullness

  • atempuser23@lemmy.world
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    9 days ago

    That is the correct thing to do. Infant appetite is linked to metabolism. If they are more hungry it is because they need it.

    Just make sure not to feed them salty/ sugary foods as it can throw that off some.

  • theinfamousj@parenti.sh
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    ABSOLUTELY. What is the worry? That the kid is scamming you to get more food which they are then going to turn around and sell to their friends on the playground? Kids, especially infants, haven’t learned to have a dysfunctional relationship with food and hunger. If they are hungry, they show it. If they aren’t, they show satiety. Definitely don’t mess with this and you’ll get a human with a good food relationship.

    You’ve got cause and effect wrong on the more food = food coma thing. Both are caused by the same thing but hunger can interfere. The same thing is a growth spurt. When a kid is in a growth spurt they eat a ton and sleep a ton. Now, hunger can prevent sleep even in a growth spurt. But that growth spurt is going to spurt and it is a great thing you are doing to support it.

    Your parenting instincts ROCK.

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    Yeah it’s fine. Feed till they express that they’re full. You’re not causing any harm.

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    Yeah. Any excess comes up again. It’s normal. The food coma is normal too. My oldest usually slept for 3 hours after eating like a bear for lunch. He’s now 13 and survived infancy just fine.

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        You’re doing great. They’ll eat when and what they need! Your kiddo is eating better than me. I had two cookies.

  • MachineFab812@discuss.tchncs.de
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    Mine were in their teens the first time they ate enough, often enough, for me to not stress over about their eating habits. The boys are both taller than me, and all my kids get better grades than I did…

  • Leate_Wonceslace@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    9 days ago

    If it’s “within reason” it’s reasonable by definition.

    You’re welcome.

    Edit: >!Yes, I’m being unhelpful on purpose; it’s supposed to be funny.!<