• Tgo_up@lemm.ee
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    14 hours ago

    You think I’m wrong?

    I’m close to 40 and this has been the case since I was a teenager. I have women I’d consider friends but I don’t hang out with them like I do with guy friends.

    I think mostly it’s just that our interests doesn’t really align.

    • Shiggles
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      13 hours ago

      It might’ve been true for your personal experiences, but it’s not universal, especially across different generations. It’s definitely more of an issue for exceptionally attractive people of any gender.

      • baines@lemmy.cafe
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        12 hours ago

        I genuinely feel for attractive people

        I’ve been moderately attractive once for a few years in my life and it was fucking awful, got grouped multiple times as a guy, can’t imagine being a hot woman for decades

        it does always feel like people want stuff from you

    • PugJesus@lemmy.worldOP
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      13 hours ago

      You think I’m wrong?

      Yes.

      I think mostly it’s just that our interests doesn’t really align.

      I think the decline of gender division in interests is a factor here.