It might be possible that my standards are just higher regarding that. I left Reddit (relatively) ealry, and when I did use it, I think the War Thunder sub was the biggest I participated in. I know it was worse in the bigger subreddits and got significantly worse over time. Since Lemmy doesn’t have any niche communities, and has fewer users in general I think that can easily push toxic users to the forefront and make it harder to avoid them.