There’s definitely some additional nuance (like a pronouns in bio/username situation) but this should cover the broad needs of anyone who is approaching this with good faith.

  • AItoothbrush@lemmy.zip
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    12 hours ago

    And then i use they and they get offended that i didnt use their preffered pronoun(true both for stupid conservatives and for some trans people who just have to try to ruin 10 years of progress in gender neutral pronouns)

    • WillStealYourUsername@lemmy.blahaj.zoneM
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      5 hours ago

      Calling someone they/them when you don’t know their pronouns is fine, and them being upset doesn’t ruin anything for anyone else. Neither you nor they are harming “10 years of progress in gender neutral pronouns” as you put it. What a strange narrative.