• andybytes@programming.dev
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    9 hours ago

    I remember I was at a pride event in a major city. I remember when they excluded trans. Remember rainbow capitalism supports the patriarchy and business as usual. The working class is in danger. Democrats use minorities as human shields. Fascism is a failed liberalism as capitalism is in crisis. Woke is a joke. You were co-opted before you even started.

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    2 days ago

    The fascists are just expecting the rainbow to fade away. But in reality, it’s gonna be like leprechaun in space

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      2 days ago

      leprechaun in space

      hmmm. the fourth installment in the series! a 1996 horror comedy film about a leprechaun who chases a princess and a crew of space marines

      kinda can’t not watch it now

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    Wait, are straight people in charge of pride month this year?

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      Our neighborhood (business association but that’s downplayed) hosted their first Pride last year, made attempts at getting actual queer people involved this year, and then announced they were $20k in the hole due to sponsors pulling out. FOR CHRISTS SAKE. Everything about this is wrong. Pride is supposed to be COMMUNITY BASED. When sponsors pull out, we’re now having to scale back plans. As a local queer community-building non-profit, I’m having to pay money to this group to have a presence, and they want me to supply volunteers to work the main event… wtf is happening… they’ve inverted it

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      3 days ago

      You might want to reread the post, because nothing about it implies straight people are in charge of pride. Only that the straight response to pride month tends to be empty celebratory phrases instead of recognizing how LGBTQ people are still being hurt.

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      3 days ago

      Yeah seriously, WTF. This is on us to send the right message. Not them.

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    3 days ago

    This post reminded me it’s been a bit since I’ve done any volunteering; just emailed a local org that does concealed carry and gun safety courses for LGBT+ folks to see if they could use an extra hand. So, thanks for posting this!

    There’s only one effective way to handle a confrontation with a Nazi, and that requires you to be armed!

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    It is rather a problem that pride allows cops, companies and rightwingers (as long as they profess to equally push down people) in their parades .

    I will show up once the bricks are back in fashion

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      Do you not want to include people from what you consider problematic to join in pride? That sounds like the opposite of the goal

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        I’m speaking of the people in general against pride/LGBT. If they actually believed what they preached then we would not be where we currently are.

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          Yeah, that’s fair (although honestly, I think many of those people don’t “preach” anything like love is love). I just didn’t like that you implied straight people would generally not do that, but yeah, I’d agree if you said “all of them”.

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          Well, the people against pride are not the ones thinking love is love. They’re the ones thinking love is only right between a cis straight man and woman. This meme is directed at straight allies, not adversaries.

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            Hi, “straight ally” here. The meme’s (and @einlander’s) intent was obvious and I’m not offended. Moreover, I would go so far as to say that anybody who does get offended was lying when they claimed to be an ally in the first place.

            Y’all have way better things to do than to try to white-knight for the already-privileged majority, LOL!

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              Sure, I was not saying the meme is not ok, I was trying to correct eilander’s probable misunderstanding of who the meme is directed at. I was not evaluating the meme’s legitimacy.

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      I too hate it when people in a place of oppression tell me in which ways they are being oppressed, and how I could help them stop being oppressed. It really makes me angry!!!

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    People do not care about other people. People are not empathetic.

    All people really want is validation, and for liberal, middle-class straight people, feeling validated means supporting a company that displays a rainbow for a week out of a year so they can say they’re not hateful bigots and thus feel validated.

    You all need to understand this, not so you can give up and be doomers, but so you can more effectively advocate for human rights. Knowing what dark, selfish dials and levers are set behind the average person’s values gives you the opportunity to find ways to get your better results without spinning in circles. Yes, their personal values on equality are selfish and hollow… but so are most values until they become so standard in society that the alternative becomes to shameful to contemplate. We’ve done this many times in history, but we lose progress the moment we expect people do to the right thing for its own sake.

    The right is great at leveraging people’s desire to be validated and accepted to further their own goals. Can YOU think of ways to make people feel a desperate, panicked need to support YOUR values? When we all start thinking like villains just a little we will have fewer villains in the world.

    ITT: naive children who think someone saying their demonstrably ineffective activism needs reworking, is actually advocating for right-wing ideology. We’re so cooked.

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          You know nazi Germany started with queer people right

          It’s a bit tone deaf to throw groups under the bus like this. There is no prioritization, we’re all in this together. We all fight together. You will get nowhere if you exclude people from the fight

          Queer people are also way more than 1%, not that that’s too relevant, we are all part of small minorities in some ways

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      Oh, but “not being into the opposite gender enough” will follow closely behind.

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          In one paragraph, you support an anti-racist ideology, while insulting other marginalized people.

          You’re not the good guy you think you are.

          Realize that your brand of bigotry usually goes hand-in-hand with racism- and that you don’t hate based on skin color- doesn’t exempt you from being called out for hate speech.

          I’m leaving your comment up to serve as an example of how NOT to be.

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              It’s always interesting to watch someone keep digging even after they’ve hit the buried nuclear waste, insisting that the treasure must be below.

              After all, that sign must have meant “keep digging” when it said:

              “This place is not a place of honor. No highly esteemed deed is commemorated here. Nothing valued is here. What is here was dangerous and repulsive to us.”