• can
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    Are you going to fill this community then show it to a judge or something?

    Can I post things I hate about your wife too?

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      I almost want to vent about my friend’s wife. She suuuuuuuuucks.

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      lol kind of, but it’s more to vent out my frustrations and serve to remind me of these things in case I start getting Stockholm syndrome. Didn’t expect this community to even get noticed, now I feel very visible and judged. May be that’s a good thing, where people can comment on whether anything I post is normal and I’m the one overreacting or something.

      Can I post things I hate about your wife too?

      Funny when you put it that way my first instinct is to defend her. I don’t think she is a bad person, after all she was the woman I fell in love with, but she certainly makes it difficult to root for her. I can say good things about her, but I always end up adding a ‘but’.

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        I don’t think she is a bad person, after all she was the woman I fell in love with

        Dude, what kind of fucked up mentality is that? People make mistake and hang out with the wrong people all the fucking time! Those school shooters and rapists you see go to jail? Yeah, they had friends and some of them were married, it doesn’t make them good people. Just accept you made a mistake and move on with your fucking life instead of creating a community to “vent” about the fact that you don’t have the courage to get your shit together.

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    Did you even talk with your soon-become-wife before you got married? Those attitudes can and should be discovered before bonding with a person, not after.

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      Back then I did ignore some red flags. One of the things she said was that she has concentric circles of people, and she was only totally herself and act freely with people in her innermost circle. Then after the marriage when she started being this way, her justification was that she didn’t have to filter herself with me because I was her innermost circle.