I have been propositioned by swingers quite a bit. It’s to the point that if a couple is nice to me, I start getting suspicious. This has happened with acquaintances, long-time friends, people I’ve met at a party, co-workers, and even strangers at the beach. Three times that I can remember off the top of my head, they propositioned me and my girlfriend at the time (separate girls many years apart). Is this a normal thing? What about me could make me attractive to swinger couples?

I’m a cis-gendered straight male. As far as physical attractiveness, I would say I’m slightly above average based on what women have told me and how they treat me.

  • Varyk
    452·
    5 months ago

    Normal, but not common.

    You’re probably hot and cool.

    I’ve asked people to join threesomes before, and I ask hot and cool people with style.

    I also suspect that if you’re above average in looks to the point that not only are you aware of it but people have regularly commented on it, you’re probably smoking hot or at least attractive with great style.

    congrats!

    • jballsEnglish
      18·
      5 months ago

      I’ve asked people to join threesomes before, and I ask hot and cool people with style.

      I first read that as you stylishly asking people to have a 3-way.

      ( •_•)>⌐■-■

      (⌐■_■)

      Hey good lookin’, wanna bang?

      • Varyk
        91·
        5 months ago

        Haha, yea, unintentional but fairly accurate.

        I absolutely love that character-people-drawing

        There’s a word for that I don’t know?

        Type-doodle?

        • thatsTheCatch@lemmy.nz
          9·
          5 months ago

          They’re called kaomoji, like emoji. In Japanese, emoji means “image-letters” and kaomoji means “face-letters.” The English word for them is probably emoticons, but that more refers to things like :-) and xD. Kaomoji can be called “Japanese emoticons.”

          If you have an Android phone, your keyboard has built-in kaomoji ヾ⁠(⁠ ͝⁠°⁠ ͜⁠ʖ͡⁠°⁠)⁠ノ⁠♪. You can access them by opening up the emoji panel at the bottom left, then tapping the “:-)” button at the bottom right, which contains some western emoticons but many categories of kaomoji

          • Varyk
            9·
            5 months ago

            Talk about TIL.(⁠+⁠_⁠+⁠)

            Fascinating.＼⁠(⁠°⁠o⁠°⁠)⁠／

            Thank you.(⁠ ⁠´⁠◡⁠‿⁠ゝ⁠◡⁠`⁠)

          • Iron Lynx@lemmy.world
            4·
            5 months ago

            I was today years old when I learned that that is a feature in my phone keyboard (⁠✷⁠‿⁠✷⁠)

            Thanks, kind stranger