• xmunkEnglish
    291·
    11 个月前

    My strategy (especially since I got married) is to just have a single plate and a single bowl. These get washed/rinsed whenever I want to put food in them (I do discard visible waste after a meal). It’s helped me both in terms of not having a pile of dishes that scares me and in terms of not getting stuck in analysis paralysis if all the dishes are dirty and I’m hungry. I actually have a visually distinct plate I use and try my best to never use a different plate to eat. I’d recommend giving it a try.

    • Twitches@lemm.eeEnglish
      6·
      11 个月前

      I’ve been trying to get my SO to agree to getting rid of all the plates and cups except for what we use hasn’t worked yet I should just go solo and take your recommendation it’s a good recommendation

      • xmunkEnglish
        6·
        11 个月前

        I’m in the same situation - we have a lot of dishes in our house and my partner can manage with multiple dishes… so I have my chosen dishes and then we have a pool of dishes for them to use - they’ve actually struggled with this same issue (they’re not diagnosed but might be ADHD) so while they use a rotation of plates and bowls they have adopted “the chosen coffee mug” to keep from getting overwhelmed by piles of mugs on random surfaces in their office.

      • MrQuallzin@lemmy.worldEnglish
        4·
        11 个月前

        My wife and I moved recently. We don’t have a dishwasher at the moment so we chose to have 4 sets of dishes unpacked total so we can make sure to keep up on dishes. 2 meals each uses all the dishes, so we’re forced to clean them daily.

    • rottingleaf@lemmy.zipEnglish
      1·
      11 个月前

      This works, but due to ADHD at some point I forget that that bowl is, say, on top of a wardrobe near the place where I sit with a laptop, and instead of remembering where it is take another one. And so on.

  • Worx@lemmynsfw.comEnglish
    15·
    11 个月前

    What do you mean? It looks pretty great having a bowl with a handle. Might even be an upgrade to usual

    • xmunkEnglish
      5·
      11 个月前

      Plus Oxo… that’s fancy. They’re eating like royalty!

    • dmention7@lemm.eeEnglish
      3·
      11 个月前

      I thought the same thing. I never knew I wanted my bowls to have handles until just now!

  • 01101000_01101001@mander.xyzEnglish
    9·
    11 个月前

    Ok, so, what has been working for me is keep the dishwasher open and racks out. Then, as I use a dish, rinse it and put it in the dishwasher. When it gets full, turn it on. The only thing I haven’t solved is putting the dishes up when it’s done.

    • tea@lemmy.todayEnglish
      6·
      11 个月前

      Yeah, loading and running is not my problem either.

      Same with folding laundry.

  • sh__@lemmy.worldEnglish
    9·
    11 个月前

    I’m surprised you still have a clean spoon too, unless that’s a fork ‘-’

    • Fuck spezOPEnglish
      1·
      11 个月前

      Yup. I filled it back up with a bunch more freeze dried strawberries and bananas when this was empty and had another “bowl”. Wouldn’t want to waste a clean dish.

    • rottingleaf@lemmy.zipEnglish
      1·
      11 个月前

      Many times, same with socks. I mean, if you keep them wet for too long, or, eh, wear dirty ones, the fabric wears out much faster.

  • Doof@lemmy.worldEnglish
    6·
    11 个月前

    It’s not gonna cure you or anything but something I did was only kept out two of every plate, bowl and utensil. I put the rest away in a place that would take more time to take out than to clean. As I got more into the habit of cleaning the dishes by necessity I would add one more set. Now I have the full set and though I still struggle I am much better at getting my dishes cleaned.

    • Fuck spezOPEnglish
      1·
      11 个月前

      Thanks, that’s similar to another suggestion someone shared and I think I may actually try it. It sounds like just the right kind of brain hack for me considering that throwing away all my old, mismatched socks and replacing them with a dozen identical pairs improved my laundry experience by about 300%.

  • xkforce@lemmy.worldEnglish
    6·
    11 个月前

    Our dishwasher leaks and we dont have the money to fix or replace it. So its all manual washing dishes… when the last bowl, plate and utensil is gone.

    • thatKamGuyEnglish
      6·
      11 个月前

      I’m quite a procrastinator myself, I’ve found gamification helps get chores done (e.g. do the dishes after dinner, get an hour of gaming time guilt-free).

      Throw on a podcast or long-form YT video/stream VOD and shit gets done pretty painless.

      • skulblaka@startrek.websiteEnglish
        3·
        11 个月前

        This is the way. I’ve learned more Elden Ring lore during my dishes and laundry chores than I have playing the game. It takes me longer, because I get distracted by the video, but it doesn’t bother me because I’m engaged with something.

  • Melvin_Ferd@lemmy.worldEnglish
    5·
    11 个月前

    Is r/twoxchromosome the antithesis of this sub. I feel like all the spouses behavior they complain about is the standard post here

    • Fuck spezOPEnglish
      6·
      11 个月前

      I couldn’t tell you. The adhdwomen community is where my people are.

    • 𝓔𝓶𝓶𝓲𝓮@lemm.eeEnglish
      3·
      11 个月前

      jeez can we stop with this gender shit altogether? There’s nothing as exhausting as the gender wars. One needs solid resistance to bullshit which I do not posses. Next time if you wanted to say women this, men this just say humans do that shit

    • GrassEnglish
      2·
      11 个月前

      Hell yeah. I’ll have my own kitchen and dishwasher again in a couple months for the first time in a couple years.

    • Fuck spezOPEnglish
      2·
      11 个月前

      Delicious. I was feeling fancy and added extra freeze dried strawberries and bananas to another “bowl” after this one.