• Mango@lemmy.world
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    4 months ago

    I don’t believe in identity past “I am me and wanna keep my finances and whatnot to myself”.

    • Ephera@lemmy.ml
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      4 months ago

      I don’t see why it would matter much, what you believe in with that. I’m not big on identity either. But the majority of people very much enjoy them.

      • Shou@lemmy.world
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        4 months ago

        Not to mention people that aren’t you care much more about your identity. Though not explicitly. They will judge and treat you based on how they see you.

        It’s why people talk louder to babies after they hear it’s a boy. It’s why people percieve shorter people as dumber or less competent. It’s just how people approach others.

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      4 months ago

      Yes. That’s what everyone wants. To feel like “me”

      The problem is “me” feels diffrent to everyone.