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    Lil tiddy supermarket goth girl sounds cute tbh, or maybe I just have a type.

    Anyway, girls like this can be a real gem to find if you’re a gooner. Their small fan base means if you’re not a creep there’s a chance of genuine interaction. She’ll probably take request and if she likes you might even send you free content.

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      And it wasn’t the grinches heart that grew three sizes that day…

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      Right, but aren’t those girls in it for the attention? The thrill? Sounds like she’s not getting any attention, either.

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        There’s a difference between none and some.

        She gets some attention, not much, but some.

        We call it nothing at all, even if it’s not nothing. It’s obvious why we do it, it’s the absence of respect. But we are technically wrong.

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          People’s views are so skewed by social media numbers. If 10 people came up to you in one day and complemented you, it would probably be the best day of your life…

          It’s like people complaining that Lemmy groups only have, using this group as an example, 3.1k users/day and are therefore not worth participating in (these are Reddit arguments, but still).

          Somehow people have developed this intuition that unless you have literally millions of interactions then you’re practically invisible. If you were hanging out at a park with 3,100 people you wouldn’t say that it was a small group, but on the Internet this is seen as a tiny number of people, hardly worth mentioning.

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    Know your worth and know where you are valued.

    This can sound really deep, but it works for shallow too. I’m sorry girl, but the whore market is saturated and very competitive.

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    Damn I remember this post from when I was on 4chan still. OP did provide links and his story was 100% true. The girl wasn’t ugly, just kinda plain but almost every pic of her somehow exuded despair, and that was honestly offputting (except for the kind of creeps who get off on that I reckon).

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    There are a lot of people whod appreciate her features so its surprising she didnt get any attention. Maybe anon made up the story and is actually into men?

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    Anon experiences empathy for once in their miserable life.
    One of the few legit greentexts. lol

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    This happened to a girl I knew that tried to make some money on onlyfans during Covid lockdown. Only lasted 4 months, even though she was pretty attractive. I think guys just assume that as a girl, you can simply post nudes online and make money, while it actually does require consistent effort, marketing skills, and a bit of luck.

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      I know so many people trying to make it as streamers who cannot seem to understand that you have to do a lot of work to make anything catch on unless you are crazy lucky/extremely attractive. A regular person playing a game isn’t interesting for others and it takes energy for most to cultivate a following.

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      There’s a bit on the Netflix Pornhub documentary from a camgirl. She notes that she does her own marketing, lighting, camera work, etc., and every once in a while, she masturbates on camera. It’s a real job with real effort.

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      11 hours ago

      on onlyfans, like most platforms, the vast majority of people make little to nothing

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        Managed my friends only fans for a bit, we got her account to top 4.5%. She brought in ~$1.5K on a good month. One time we got up to $2K. This is with her having done porn with a few big studios and having a decent amount of followers on Twitter. There is no Discovery feature or feed on OF, you have to direct them there through a direct link. Had to keep a consistent production schedule, deal with inquires from patrons. Successfully running and only fans is like running a business, people don’t simply give you money.

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            Yeah, people think it’s easy to defraud Social Security. It’s hard pretending that I was born over 150 years ago.

            Shit, all the work I had to maintain that fraud. Fuck me, it was tough.

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      11 hours ago

      I imagine it’s as easy to make money off of as YouTube or Twtich, almost impossible.

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    I see this quite often on the other side of reddit. It’s quite sad. On that side of reddit, where no one shows their face, except occasionals who either leave generic “sexy 😍” comments or entitled requests, no one acknowledges you for trying.

    Every time I see some woman praising sex work and/or calling it feminist, I am reminded of the 10 other girls who who_red away their dignity for absolutely nothing

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      who_red away their dignity

      🚩🚩🚩🚩

      Surprised that comment has this many upvotes

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      Sex work isn’t often feminist, but sex workers still deserve respect. They deserve to be included in the feminist movement.

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        And we can start by no longer implying that the work is somehow undignified. This applies to OP as well as GP.

        Sex workers shouldn’t have to wait for the revolution to find respect. Maybe there wouldn’t be sex workers after the revolution, but I certainly hope it results in a society where people are freer to express their sexuality in safe and consensual ways.

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      it’s a common criticism on reddit that the nsfw subs are just becomijg advertsfor OF so I’m not surprised they dont get much interaction

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      That’s what you get when you post on Reddit. Lemmy users appreciate everyone (becaude the communities are almost dead).