• southsamurai
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    8 hours ago

    F&g

    That being said, for anyone that ever gets into a similar situation, the correct thing to say/do after the thumbs up is to say , “and thank you for sharing them with me. May I enjoy them more directly?”

    You can paraphrase that, it’s just the idea.

    But, my boob loving homies, it doesn’t matter if you’ve been married to the boob owner for decades, pay appreciation to them tiddies every time you get access to them, visually or otherwise. I promise you, it will never be a bad thing to give appreciation to a partner for sharing their body with you. You don’t have to be formal about it, something like “baby, I’m so happy you let me motorboat your funbags” will work if that’s the kind of relationship you have. Something like “honey, even after all the days and nights we’ve shared, I never stop being happy we’re together, and that you share yourself with me like this.” might be a bit better received by some.

    Fuck, for my dick loving homies out there, it works while you’re fondling balls too.

    Remember, sex is someone giving you full access to their body, with all the vulnerability that comes with that. Be aware of the wonder that it is. Share that wonder with them.

    I’m 50 now. I’ve had intimate access to women since I was under 18, with varying degrees of regularity. Never once has saying thank you in a genuine and personal way gone wrong. Not once.

    And I’ll tell you, when a partner says it to me, it never fails to make me happy.

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      20 minutes ago

      Honestly, I found the most effective way to get the titty high is to grow them yourself. You can take this medication that’ll let you grow some right on your chest so you’ll always have access to a pair you can squeeze.

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      2 hours ago

      Grandma, I’m just eternally grateful every time you let me finger blast your ostomy port! 😍

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      5 hours ago

      I thanked a girl for letting me fondle her tits and she immediately recoiled and told me never to thank girls for things like that again.

      So, it depends… But on what, exactly?

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        3 hours ago

        It depends on how into you/the situation they are, just like with everyone. Most people are more accepting of people saying weird shit (any kind of thing, not specifically thanking them) in the moment if they have an emotional connection to the person saying it or if they’re really horny.

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      5 hours ago

      You might also ask what she wants to do.

      Usually, when things get going, my go-to has been “wow… Where do you want this to go?”

      Sometimes you don’t get an answer, and thats ok. Lots of people just get things going but expect you to then take charge.

      Other times I find that people have hopes for what they’d like to happen.

      And specifically asking about that is step one to giving someone exactly what they want.

      And thank yous are always nice. Both to hear and say.