• Trainguyrom@reddthat.com
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    1 day ago

    I’ve learned from my female friends that the bar for men is so fucking low. Basically shower regularly, listen to what other people say, know how to keep your home relatively clean and don’t be a creep and you’re immediately in the top 30%

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        I’ve had sex with 50+ women in life, many way above my “value”, and most from when I was broke as fuck. Anyone that thinks it takes money to get laid is making excuses for something. And BTW, I’m 5’8" and 140lbs., a “manlet” I think I’m called?

        As it turns out, I’m horny and a genuine human being. Women respond to that. (I also give good head. Write that down.)

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          lol, yeah ok romeo.
          i don’t think “it takes money to get ‘laid’”.
          i’ve never heard the term “manlet” before.
          also, i give better head than you.
          ….
          also bragging about 50+ women is pretty gross… and misogynistic…
          women aren’t just expensive jizz rags.

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        I don’t think they did. The bar is pretty low and still applies if you’re poor or rich.

        No need to bring incell culture here.

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          24 hours ago

          6 figures, 6 feet, 6 inches is on a lot of people’s profiles.

          If you were rich it would probably more than double the number of people who are interested in you.

          Part of why there are so many idiots self assigning as incels is because we refuse to agree with them when it’s fair.

          This shit culture perpetuates itself all over the gender spectrum.

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          24 hours ago

          i’m bringing incel culture here? did you notice notice this is a post about “incel culture” from and incel?
          besides, the notion that a financially unstable man has a hard time dating is not an incel concept… it’s just straight up reality.
          i’ve even seen good reasoning regarding a woman’s risk of pregnancy vs a man’s risk….

          i could go on, but it’s a straight up fact that: no money -> no honey

          and i do not blame women, i blame capitalism and patriarchy.

          incidentally i actually met their hero, Elliot Rogers… aka, the incel school shooter….
          he was very rich, his dad directed Hunger Games… aside from being a psychopathic piece of shit, incel has nothing to do with money, it’s about how they think they can’t get laid with their idolized tall blond woman without being a chad or whatever….

          tl;dr the bar is low but definitely includes financial stability… not wealth.