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    For those on traditional social media, I just say “What if Facebook and Twitter and YouTube could all talk to each other? People on Facebook could follow people on Twitter and people on Twitter can follow people on Facebook.” Then they usually reply “that would be neat” and then I tell them “yeah, that’s what we are building over here in the fediverse.”

    It usually is easier to give them an analogy related to something they are familiar with.

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      Ironically as a fediverse user I had a visceral reaction to reading that. That sounds like absolute nightmare fuel to me…

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        True. But when talking to someone who lives on traditional social media, it is an explanation they would understand. Sometimes you have to meet people where they are, not where you want them to be.

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      I actually have separate accounts on the different fediverse products - for me it’s the decentralization of instances that’s the most appealing.

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    When I tell people the only social media I use is Lemmy, I always wait patiently for follow up questions immediately after, which never come, because nobody gives a shit about what obscure social media the 35 year old man uses.

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      I just say “I frequent a few niche forums”. No follow up questions. I’m old as well.

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        I frequent forums, too. Mostly car and motorcycle forums. Lemmy doesn’t really have those kinds of forums.

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          If you have content please post it. I’d love to have a motorcycle forum here but can’t really add content

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            You wanna see me install a Raspberry Pi 3 into my minivan to run the rear seat entertainment system? 😅

            I’m more of a lurker than anything else haha. I scour forums for issues my cars/bikes are dealing with, and occasionally will ask a question here or there. I don’t really make many posts anymore, unless I’m doing a specific job or troubleshooting process that I haven’t seen documented anywhere else.

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              You wanna see me install a Raspberry Pi 3 into my minivan to run the rear seat entertainment system?

              I mean, I don’t not want to see that…

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                I do have a blog for my XR500 that I’m slowly working to make street legal. I initially called it a “restoration”, but it’s more of a “refresh with some light modernization” than anything else haha. I intend on keeping it as apocalypse-friendly as I can, since it’s kickstart-only, runs off a CDI system, and technically doesn’t need a battery (except for lighting)… The biggest hangup I have with that bike right now is the damn 23" front wheel that’s cracked. Not a single wheel repair shop I’ve called wants to touch it, a not-cracked 23" hoop is ~$150, and it’s too much work to convert it to 21" (that requires a disc brake conversion - I’m not tracking this thing, it’s just a commuter).

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          Lemmy is missing so much stuff, it’s pretty tough to be only here if you want any content except (left wing) politics and tech stuff

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          It is kind of crazy how motorcycle/car culture hasn’t really moved off of old-school internet forums. I very rarely need to visit them because I’m not a car guy, but I do think very fondly of them whenever I visit, they remind me of the internet of my childhood

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            There’s not a whole lot of crossover between car/motorcycle enthusiasts and tech enthusiasts. IT guys seem to be an exception here (source: I worked in IT for a bit), but they’re a small minority. Car enthusiasts in general tend to lean towards the conservative side of things anyway… 👀

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      I told one of my co-workers I used Lemmy, and he actually used Mastodan, so I’m the one who ended up asking him questions

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      As a 23 year old man, i quite often get the follow up “whats lemmy” but nothing beyond that.

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          Then they ask me what’s reddit… And I go “it’s like Orkut communities, just without the profiles” and they go “oh that sounds cool”

          (Orkut was actually a thing here in Brazil)

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        35 is rough. I’m starting to understand the whole “mid life crisis” thing.

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          Yeah, 30 is a blip, but I remember 35 felt like the first time that my 30s really hit home - that the years would just keep coming.

          This is a bit male centric, but Neal Stephenson had a good line about this feeling in Snow Crash:

          Until a man is twenty-five, he still thinks, every so often, that under the right circumstances he could be the baddest motherfucker in the world. If I moved to a martial-arts monastery in China and studied real hard for ten years. if my family was wiped out by Colombian drug dealers and I swore myself to revenge. If I got a fatal disease, had one year to live, devoted it to wiping out street crime. If I just dropped out and devoted my life to being bad.

          The process of getting old is bit like getting farther and farther away from that point. And maturity is what you do with that feeling.

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            Man that’s exactly how it feels. I read snow crash when I was like 16 or something and that totally didn’t even register with me.

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          I still don’t understand the mid life crisis thing, but then again I never had a life

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      Best way I can describe misskey as a user of it is that it’s like mastodon but if they implemented every feature request possible. I mean it literally has a toggle to convert your text into cat speak for no other reason other than the dev felt like it. It even has its own markdown language to give your text crazy effects because who wouldn’t want an emoji amplified 4 times that spins and changes color?

      It uses activitypub as well so it’s entirely interoperable with mastodon instances (although some functions like quote posts or the custom markdown language aren’t formatted as nicely when viewed from a mastodon instance)

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          If you want to enable the setting, it’s under

          Settings > Profile > Advanced Settings > Mark this account as a cat

          (wording/location may vary if you’re using a misskey fork but it should be under the profile settings somewhere)

          This will give your icon cat ears in public timelines and any text you write will be converted to catspeak. Works better in Japanese, which is the language it was designed for, but in English words like “now” get converted to “meow” for example.

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    Not even big instances, but big platforms I would say. Like, if you’re lucky someone might have heard about Mastodon, but that’s pretty much it.

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          Yeah failed in the sense that it hasn’t totally disrupted how industries do business, but a success when it comes to chatting with people online about things.

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            As an competitor to Twitter, I’d call it a failure. As it’s own thing, I’d say they’re doing OK.

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    The original comic is actually genius, and very true.

    You clearly see it when the Linux users start prostletysing.

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      I want to like Linux and leave Windows, but when I say that I don’t want to be forced to use CLI/terminal because I don’t live in the 1970s, people get angry at me.

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        If all you do is web browse and play games, you should be able to use Linux without the CLI just fine.

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          I installed Ubuntu in a VM to torrent with mulvad. I had to go to the command line. Worse was googling gave multiple contradictory instructions that further reading yielded “deprecated”.

          I made it work because I’ve been doing it for 30 years. Anyone else would be better with Windows where it just works.

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            This is the most Lemmy interaction I’ve seen in awhile:

            Linux is fine without CLI for web browsing.

            But when I needed an advanced secure virtual machine isolated torrent solution, I had to use the CLI.

            Here’s some thoughts on accomplishing that in Linux without the CLI.

            I’m not complaining, just watching in admiration of you all.

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              I mean. I don’t mind CLI, but I found it ridiculous that there seems to be no default text editor on Ubuntu. Like, I couldn’t look into a text file without pulling up the terminal.

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                The Linux community is able to agree on many things… But what you ask… It’s just too much…

                (I’m making a humorous reference to the constant arguments about the best editor… But… Also conceding your point.)

                Do we not have a default graphical text editor?

                I’m enough of an editor snob that I don’t even know what the default is… If there is one.

                I can see how I’m probably part of the problem, in this case.

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            Huh, why not just use QBittorrent? I’ve never even felt the need to reach for the command line with torrents (Linux ISOs of course) because it works so well.

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              Yes it was QBitTorrent. The problem was getting mulvad out of the VM while letting QBitTorrent use a local network share to save files. I needed everything to be static ips.

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                Would you have been able to create your specific use case on Windows? Because most people don’t try “getting mulvard out of the VM”. That’s the type of thing that’s in my experience usually (I don’t know about this case specifically - that’s why I’m asking) a lot easier on Linux than on Windows (not that it’s easy)

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                  The reason I brought it up was because it worked without problems in a Windows VM. But I really didn’t want to run Windows so I worked on Linux until it worked.

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            you haven’t been using torrents, Ubuntu, or VPNs for 30 years. why would you lie about that?

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              I’ve been using Linux for 30+ years so using a command line isn’t a problem. In fact my experience is a problem because my goto commands and config files have all been deprecated.

              For example I immediately tried ifconfig. You’re probably too young to even know that command.

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                I immediately tried ifconfig. You’re probably too young to even know that command.

                no… i still haven’t figured out what i’m supposed to use instead.

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                ifconfig was deprecated in 2009. I got into Linux in the last 10 years and still used ifconfig. Sure, it’s deprecated and no longer included in most modern installs, but you can still download and use it as before. A lot of guides online used ifconfig, so it’s a pretty common package for inexperienced users to download, even if deprecated.

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                  Which is exactly what I said if you’d stop being hostile. I tried ifconfig, it wasn’t there. Googled saw instructions for both ifconfig and ip. Read more saw ifconfig deprecated. Saw /network/interfaces is deprecated. But when you Google it shows that and systemd information. As I said, I knew enough to know what I was reading and got it working.

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        been on Linux mint for a year now and the only time i use the terminal is to git push to update my website. so far, nothing else I’ve been doing has needed the terminal.

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            does it? because I’ve looked and have only been able to find things that will tell me the status of my repository but not actually let me simply click a button to commit and push.

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              Oh, I assumed you were using github, my bad. There probably isn’t a good desktop app for git outside of github.

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                I am using github though.

                Keep in mind that if I actually try to look at github, my smoothbrain glazes over. I’ve only checked what’s available through my package manager. I probably should have included that in the previous comment.

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                  Ah, I see. If you look up “Github Desktop” online it should have a Linux version. I haven’t actually used it outside of Windows, but I can’t imagine it’s missing committing/pushing to github, that’s the whole point of the app! And yeah, github can be pretty daunting initially, there’s a lot going on and it didn’t feel intuitive to me initially either. I wish I had better advice other than just stick with it, but that’s what I did so I don’t know of any good guides

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        The CLI does some things so fast though. I myself like bypassing the gui and interacting more directly. Same reason I only drive manual cars and grind my own coffee (autistic?) But yes, I am glad linux has a gui and we shouldn’t force the cli on people who grew up with ipads.

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            Find a friend with one, otherwise the key is to be smooth and really feel the clutch engagement. It’s different for every vehicle. Its a balance between clutch and gas. With a lower power car you’ll need more gas to balance while letting the clutch out. With an old manual truck, you pretty much need no gas input to get going because of torque. Another good way to learn could be just pick up an old g27 or g29 wheel (they have 3 pedals and a shifter either h pattern or paddles) and learn that way with a racing simple like LFS, Asetto Corsa, or Automobilista 2.

            Depending where you live there’s all sorts of sub $800 manual cars. That’s how I learned (rusty $500 crx)

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          ffmpeg is one of the things where I prefer the CLI. It’s crazy powerful, and does some insane things in pretty simple commands. I’ve seen a meme that says half the internet is just wrappers for ffmpeg, and I’m inclined to agree.

          Also, as an arch user (btw) pacman / AUR are a much better experience than having to hunt down the installers for everything online.

          Similarly, the right CLI tools make searching for files across my entire computer much simpler and way faster than I could ever do with a GUI

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        I don’t want to be one of the people you think is angry at you, but I do want to proselytize a bit.

        have you ever used a dedicated download manager? think of the terminal, first, as a dedicated download manager. All you do is type wget and then paste in the URL.

        eventually, you may want to specify where the file goes, or what it’s named when you finally download it, or something else. then, you can look up which flags to add with wget -h

        I suggest you try Linux, any flavor, but especially Debian or Debian variants. instead of thinking you need to learn to use terminal, just remember that you have a dedicated download manager called terminal.

        The thing is you will eventually learn that the terminal does a lot more than called wget. and you already know how to get help, and add flags.

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        Silly to get angry about, because you can use Linux just fine without it. But the terminal is a powerful tool.

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        If you say it like that you are pretty much trying to aggravate them, though

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        OpenSUSE. People don’t seem to give it much love, but their system settings application YaST makes command line usage completely avoidable for average users. Even for power users, YaST makes command line usage optional rather than necessary for most tasks.

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          While this was true 10-15 years ago, nearly all popular distros include graphical configuration tools that are as good or better than Yast these days.

          Cli usage on Linux is entirely optional these days on most Linux distributions, but once you learn a bit of cli use you actually realize that it can be a very helpful tool.

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            I don’t think anyone is arguing CLIs aren’t useful, pretty sure we all know that. It’s not like you see the l33t haxxorz in movies tearing through GUI windows. We’re saying we don’t want to have to rely on it to do stuff frequently, for one reason or another.

            And as far as saying it’s optional, I must be a power user, because even on Ubuntu I felt I couldn’t do much of anything without opening CLI.

            IMO one of Linux’ greatest follys is demanding perfection to the point where everyone just tries to make the superior way of doing things, then you end up with a mess of different ways to implement the same things. It’s like that joke about coding languages, each one meant to be the final perfect language. Like with installers, on Windows you’re generally going to get an exe, an msi, or some compressed file type that you just need to drag files into their location. Linux? I can’t even tell you how many different methods I’ve seen for installing various things, none of which seems to be the “standard”. Even compression seems to be way more all over the place, on Windows I only ever really see 7z, zip and rar, but I’ve seen a dozen different compression types for Linux files. That’s incredibly confusing for dumb people like me.

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              Wdym? Installing things on Linux is much simpler. There is exactly one preferred way: the application repository from the distribution with a nice GUI interface for it. File types of archives play no role in that and why would that even be relevant?

              Windows only recently got something similar with the Microsoft store, and before is was a super confusing mess of lots of different types of installers and generally a huge security issue to run .exe files from unstrusted random internet downloads.

              Your explanation sounds more like you are trying to use Linux like it was Windows XP. But Linux is not Windows… you are holding it wrong 😅

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                My most recent experience being Ubuntu, this feels like a joke. Have you used the Ubuntu store? And the suggestion that the Microsoft store is in any way good makes me question your entire comment, it’s absolute trash on top of garbage. This feels like a joke comment to me. Executables are a huge security risk for you? 🤣

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                  Yes, the Windows store is crap, but it is still miles ahead of running random .exe installers.

                  And the Ubuntu store is like the worst possible example you could find 😱

                  Just any normal distribution repository from for example Debian or Fedora works great. And Gnome and KDE have very easy to use GUI interfaces for these and ideally Flathub is also integrated. Super easy and seamless, no joke at all.

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          Yes, eventually I learned how, but the vast majority of tutorials on how to install or do anything on Linux jump straight into it.
          And as a software developer, a lot of tools I come across don’t have an official non-terminal installation option.

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            So here’s the thing: providing support is much easier on the command line.

            Also if you think about it, insisting that people who provide support or documentation use the system the same way you want to use it so they can show you how to use it is pretty weird.

            Hold on there: did you say you’re a software developer? Can you do us all a favour and put GUI-only on your CV?

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              For CLI programs I agree, but I’ve come across GUI programs for which the official installation instructions were CLI only (like Android Studio).

              I’m not GUI-only, I just strongly prefer it. My CV does contain me having years of experience developing GUI programs.

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                OK, again, as a hiring manager I would really appreciate you stating your preference for GUI-based computing on there. It will save both of us a lot of time.

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                  It’s a preference, and I may complain about it on social media, but I know things are how they are and I’m not so hung up on it as to let it affect my work.

                  Worst case I would take a few minutes between tasks to quickly whip up a GUI helper, but I think that in 10 years I only did it 2 or 3 times.

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              don’t use terminal, you don’t need it.

              so here’s the thing: providing support is much easier on the command line.

              Uh-uh…

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        When I need to run terminal, it’s because I’m following a specific guide to fix or setup something. It’s not much different than following a similar guide for Windows, except there might be a bit more copy+paste going on on Linux.

        The omnipresent mentions of terminal also delayed my switch and it was completely unnecessary.

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          Yes, I eventually managed to learn how to do most stuff without the terminal, but almost all “How to do Whatever on Linux” tutorials immediately jump into it.

          I know the terminal is more distro-agnostic, but even the distro-specific tutorials do it.

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            Yes, but day to day usage, you don’t have to touch it

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    I’ve never felt like a bigger idiot than when I try to explain the fediverse to normal people.

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      I find it easier if the other person is a podcast listener.

      “You know how podcast ads usually say ‘listen to it in Apple or Spotify or wherever you get your podcasts?’ It’s a bit like that.”

      If not, I have to say something weak or complicated like “it’s a bit like email, dunno how to explain this if you have never thought about how email works, though”.

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        That’s a really good analogy.

        The email one works too once they realize they’ve never actually thought about what an email is. Like:

        “If I send you an email from gmail, you can open it in outlook, right?” “Yeah”

        “That’s because an email is just a file that both gmail and outlook can use” “makes sense”

        “Can I see your Twitter post on Reddit?” “No of course not”

        “But i can see Lemmy (Reddit) posts on Mastodon (Twitter). And these apps aren’t owned by huge companies. Normal people run each instance, and the software is free for anyone to use or host.”

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        I usually start with email, but I wonder if podcasts would be smarter. when I read what you said, my first thought was"but podcasts require you to upload to every instance that you want to be seen on" and then I realized that for the people that are just trying to get content this doesn’t matter. That’s actually genius.

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      Hey… so you know about Email, right?

      How you’re with Gmail and I with… say Proton. And we can still send Emails to each other? …

      Is my go to approach

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      I always start with, ok, so you know the internet is basically a series of tubes right? Once we are on the same page about that, I start talking about ipv4 and ipv6 including a mention of dual stack supporting instances.

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    To top it all off, I share this to discord groups where nobody even knows what the fediverse is.

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      I know she is, but its kind of creepy.

      It’s no longer as humorous as she was at first withe them whole shit j. The world and the content just makes me worry it’s something else that we Rob ok can’t control.

      Edit : ok that happened a second time this morning why the fuck am I dosing off suddenly and not realizing I didn’t check before I hit save?

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          I know. It happened a lot a long time ago when I struggled with sleeping problems and some medicine that didn’t help me actually sleep, but I have no idea what triggered it yesterday. I’m fine today.

          Still makes me chuckle though.

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    [off topic?] When William Gibson was researching ‘Neuromancer’ he spent a lot of time hanging out with hackers. They’d tell stories and he’d catch about a quarter of what they were talking about.

    When it came to write the book he decided that he’d make the book like that, the reader would have to push though a lot of things that didn’t make sense until they acquired more information.

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      If everyone took privacy, ethics, and computing as serious as the nerds in the fediverse the world would be an objectively better place.

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        I’m with you on privacy and computing but LOL at the ethics. Lemmy exhibits the same “bad when THEY do it, good when WE do it” ethics as general social media and the world at large.

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          Yeah that’s fair most of us have no issue stealing software and we’re definitely influenced by our own biases.

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    Story of my life. I’m so annoyed when the response is to try to get me to shut up my flattering my intelligence. “Wow you use big words, anywayyyy”. Id rather you tell me you just don’t care. Then I can stop wasting my time. It took me a long time to realize what was going on, lmao.